Q&A for How to Be a Nerd

That's up to you! Many nerds like those things, but that doesn't necessarily make you a nerd. The label of "nerd" is something you claim for yourself because you like it and you think it fits. Regardless of whether you like the idea of being a nerd, interests in art, reading, and learning are excellent things. Keep pursuing them!

Some nerds are quiet, some nerds are talkative, and some are in between. Don't worry so much about how much you "should" talk. Speak up when you think you have something worth saying, and stop to listen when you want to focus on someone else's ideas. Nerds share their unique ideas and they also listen and learn from other people. Use your best judgment and don't worry too much about it.

Being a "nerd" is a label you give yourself. Having intelligence doesn't necessarily make you a nerd, though it is a common "nerdy" trait. See if you think being called a "nerd" seems fitting for you.

Anyone can go barefoot if they so please, including nerds, though going barefoot isn't often associated with nerds.

No - you don't need to wear glasses to be a nerd, and not all nerds wear glasses. Nerds are usually associated with glasses, but some nerds wear contacts or don't have problems with their vision at all.

There is no certain food that is associated with nerds. Everyone's food preferences are different.

Nerds don't necessarily have to go to college. Many nerds choose to go to college to continue their education and study their passion, but they're more than welcome to go to trade school instead or to end their education after high school.

Being a nerd doesn't give you health problems, and having health problems doesn't make you a nerd. Nerds may be depicted as having certain health problems in the media, but many nerds do not have these health problems at all, it's just a stereotype with no foundation.

This is a media stereotype that isn't necessarily true. Health problems can happen to anyone. Some writers decide to give nerdy characters physical problems to emphasize that they are strong in mind but weak in body. But nerds are a diverse group, including strong people, people with disabilities, people with many serious health conditions, and people who are perfectly healthy. Since nerds generally pursue intellectual activities, they might have less time for physical activity. But every nerd is different, so don't take the stereotypes too seriously.

Nerds vary greatly in terms of body types, and there is no size limit. Nerds can be chubby, thin, strong, physically disabled, short, tall, and any shape and size. Don't listen to anyone who tells you that your size should limit who you allow yourself to be. Being a nerd is about personality and behavior, not body type. Anyone can be a nerd if they want to be.

If you're looking for new friends, then go for it! Try saying "yes" to invitations and asking about their interests. You might find things in common with them. If you notice that you enjoy spending time together, then you're likely a good fit for friendship. And if your personalities don't seem to fit, then let it go. It sounds like some of your peers think you're pretty cool, which is a lucky situation to be in, so it might be fun to give friendship a try.

Show your friends how much enjoyable being a nerd can be by showing them the aspects of nerd culture. Try to show them that a nerd is a unique individual who never stops inquiring about, well, anything! You can start by dressing like a nerd, taking up nerdy hobbies, or befriending fellow nerds.

Yes, nerds are not restricted to any special types of footwear. Many nerds like to be practical, but it's up to you and your personal style. Definitely dress for the weather and keep cool if it's hot.