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How do I dress casually?

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Wear plenty of jeans, T-shirts, and sweatshirts for all of your casual looks.

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How do I dress formally as a tomboy?

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For a dressier tomboy look, your clothing staples could include blazers or suits, along with menswear-inspired shoes, like oxfords. Also, pick out clothing in neutral tones, like black, gray, navy, and white.

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How do tomboys act?

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Tomboys may dress or act in ways that are usually regarded as masculine. For example, a tomboy might wear t-shirts and jeans, cut her hair short, and be into traditionally “masculine” things, like sports or monster trucks. But there are many ways to be a tomboy, so experiment around to find the tomboy style and attitude that’s most true to you!

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Is it okay to be a tomboy?

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Yes, it’s absolutely okay! Being a tomboy is all about expressing who you are and dressing and acting in ways that make you comfortable and happy. Nobody should be made to feel bad about their style and interests.

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Do guys like tomboys?

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It really depends on the guy. Some guys may feel more comfortable with tomboys or find them attractive, while others prefer a more feminine style. If you enjoy being a tomboy, go for it and don’t worry about what guys might think—that way, you’re more likely to meet someone who appreciates you for who you are.

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Can tomboys wear jeans every day?

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Yes, of course you can! If you want more variety, try wearing jeans in different prints and colours.

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I am the only daughter my mom has, and she wants me to be... well, girly! I can't help it, but I want to be tomboy. How can I do this without her really noticing?

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You could dress more girly when at home with your mom, and like a tomboy when you leave the house.

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What if your school has a uniform?

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Check out the wikiHow article on adding a tomboy touch to a school uniform .

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I am emo. Can I still be a tomboy?

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Of course! Just opt for the emo styles that lean more toward being gender-neutral. It sounds like you're on the way to creating a totally unique style for yourself, so embrace it!

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Do you HAVE to play sporty games other then football??

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Definitely not! Being a tomboy is a personal style that anyone can adopt. Although many tomboys are athletic, not all of them are.

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Can I still be a tomboy if I do girl scouts and ballet?

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Sure! There's no one right or wrong way to be a tomboy. The most important thing is to do what feels true to you!

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I'm the eldest in my family and I have no brothers but 3 sisters, which puts a lot of pressure on me. Does being a tomboy have to do with my behavior? And do I have to deepen my voice to succeed?

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You definitely don't have to change your voice at all to be a tomboy. Being a tomboy mostly just means you prefer activities and/or clothing that aren't necessarily considered "girly." Also, by embracing a path that feels authentic to you, you're actually setting a really great example for your little sisters!

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how can i tell people that i am a tomboy with out thum be cores out or be misstaking to be a ackill boy

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Being a tomboy just means that you're not super girly. In fact, if you already are a tomboy, most people won't be surprised when you tell them, especially if they already know you.

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How do you know if you are a tomboy or a transgender?

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Figuring out your identity can be a work in progress. Don't feel like you have to know the answer right away - give yoruself plenty of time to explore what feels most authentic to you.

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