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Can I become an alpha if I'm a bit shy?

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You can, but you have to be willing to push yourself out of your comfort zone. Getting popular and becoming the alpha of a clique will require you to talk to a lot of people and be a little sassy. You can always go back to being a little quieter once you've established your place.

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How should I act as an alpha female if I have to break up a fight?

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Try to mediate the fight, calm the situation by reminding the people involved of the consequences of the fight. Then try to resolve the issue through mediating and allowing both parties to share their part of the story. Usually after the second step the issue is resolved, since both parties have heard the opinions and therefore can clear any misunderstanding. Remember to be brave and assertive.

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How do I become an alpha female even among men?

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Start by not being some man's beta female. Regardless of gender, you are an alpha female or you are not. Being alpha doesn’t mean you have to aggressive or act like a boor. Just be an alpha.

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Should I be religious to become alpha? I am not religious.

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No, you don't have to be religious to become alpha. Just be confident and be yourself.

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What if I'm new to the school and want to become an alpha there?

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Be yourself. I learned this during 8th grade. I wasn't popular, I had no friends, people bossed me around until I finally said something extremely stupid. "Chicken Nugget Waddle Squaddle" I was being myself. They all laughed, and then I said something else really stupid. They laughed again. They began to like me because I was being myself and not somebody else. And don't let them push you around either. You can't be alpha if you seem weak. After the jokes I told them how I felt I told them what to do, and why they should do it. And somehow I gained a lot of respect, and soon I was the leader of the group. I had over 52 friends and the whole school knew who I was.

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