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How can I deal with dating a younger man when my ex hates him?

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He's your ex, so don't give him power over your life. Date who you want and let go of the need for approval. Trust yourself and realize your own approval is all you need.

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Is it okay for a cougar to fall in love with her boy toy?

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Yes, it is very natural for that to happen, just continue exuding confidence and everything shall be all right.

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How do I approach a younger man?

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Walk up to him and say hello. Have confidence. It's sexy, and sets you apart from many younger, insecure women who just stand around twirling their hair expecting the man to take all the risks.

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Is it possible to change the relationship into a long-term one?

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Yes, as long as both of you agree that this is what you want out of the relationship.

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If I falls in love with my boy toy, is it okay to try to pursue a relationship?

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If both parties agree to pursuing a relationship, then it could definitely work out, but the two of you need to have a frank discussion about it.

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Does a cougar need to pay the younger man for his company?

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It depends on the cougar and it depends on the man. If you hire someone from an escort service, you will certainly have to pay him. If you simply meet a young man who likes to date older women, you will likely not have to pay him anything (though I'm sure gifts are always appreciated).

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How can I tell my mom about my relationship with a cougar?

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If it's not a serious relationship, you don't need to tell your mom about it. If it is serious, don't call her a cougar. Just say something like, "Mom, I've been seeing someone for awhile now, and I really like her a lot. Just to let you know, she's a bit older than me..."

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