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    Is Harry Styles a Southern belle?
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    No. Harry Styles is British.
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    What if my friend does not do any of this and she calls herself a southern belle?
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    You should show her this article! Everyone is different and entitled to their own opinions about their identity. Your friend might also be making a joke or being sarcastic.
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    Why is it still acceptable to tell women to act like Southern Belles?
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    This article is for someone who wants know about traditional southern belles. That could be for many reasons including an acting role, a character they're writing about, or just as a topic of interest.
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    Would aunt Alexandra from "To Kill a Mockingbird" be considered a southern belle?
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    Yes and no. While she is very proper, she is too high strung to be a southern belle.
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    If I'm an atheist, can I still be a southern belle?
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    Yes. You really just need to have an air about you that makes you seem like a southern belle.
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    Is it acceptable to wear white shoes between Easter and Labor Day?
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    Yes, of course. White shoes are perfectly fine for the summertime. This article is saying that it is "tacky" to wear white shoes after Labor Day and before Easter (winter, a small bit of spring, and fall).
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    May I call myself a Southern Belle if I am Canadian? I'm technically from the south since I live in southern Alberta.
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    Of course you can. Be sure to use the southern charm as well.
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    Can a man be a southern belle?
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    The equivalent to a "southern belle" for men would be a "southern gentleman," or just "southern gent."
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    How do I find dresses so that I can dress like a southern belle?
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    Belk has many "southern belle-like" dresses. They also have accessories to fit the look.
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    Can I be a southern belle if I'm middle eastern?
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    I don't see why not. As long as you have manners and grace and know the secret taboos then you can get away with anything! If you fake a southern accent and/or overdramatize your "southern belleness" people might look at you strangely, however.
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    How should a Southern Belle style her hair?
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    Classic twists and loose curls are good. Hairspray is also a staple for most styles, as are bobby pins.
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    Can I be a southern belle if I'm black, or is this too reminiscent of the times of slavery?
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    A Southern belle is someone who is feminine, gracious, and strong; it's all about her value systems and her behavior - how she "shows up" in the world and in her home. Anyone can choose to be a belle, regardless of skin color.
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    Does it matter what my skin color is?
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    Of course not! Whether your skin color is fair, olive, tan or brown, anyone can be a southern belle. As long as you have the mannerisms, grace and charm and you know all of the secret taboos, you've got the southern belle thing made!
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    Is Miss Manners a southern belle?
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    No, Miss Manners is not a southern belle. Miss Manners is certainly proper, but she is not a southern belle.
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