Q&A for How to Command Respect from Other People

Don't own this problem. Your opinion must be respected, because you are a human being, equal to all others. If it is not respected, don't ask what you do wrong, but point out to those who disrespect you that their behavior is unacceptable. It's not you, it's them. In addition, there are various things to learn. Body language, intonation, speech patterns, but also tricks, such as reducing your volume or putting the information at the start of what you are saying.

You need to think of what you want for your own life. If you live your life try to do what you think others expect of you you will likely never be truly happy. Your friends and peers should like you for who you are.

Signs of respect are treating you as an equal, honoring your requests (within reason), and listening when you set boundaries and give your opinion.

Within your question lies the root of your worries. When you say "You know how to act confident" but are uncomfortable....", it sounds like you are forcing the confidence. In most of the interactions you feel it is necessary. This may cause friction within you because it doesn't seem natural. You are a confident individual but need to be more patient with yourself. You have knowledge and skills which you are good at. Take advantage of situations where you utilize these attributes. Don't be shy when you know you are right. Also, it is important to take advantage of opportunities that will teach you more skills and give you knowledge. For these, a positive can-do attitude will prevail.