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QuestionHow can I impress a shy guy?Moshe Ratson is the Executive Director of spiral2grow Marriage & Family Therapy, a coaching and therapy clinic in New York City. Moshe is an International Coach Federation accredited Professional Certified Coach (PCC). He received his MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Iona College. Moshe is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), and a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF).Try making the first move and letting him know that you're interested right away. That way, he may be more inclined to open up to you.
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QuestionHow can I get a shy guy to open up?Moshe Ratson is the Executive Director of spiral2grow Marriage & Family Therapy, a coaching and therapy clinic in New York City. Moshe is an International Coach Federation accredited Professional Certified Coach (PCC). He received his MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Iona College. Moshe is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), and a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF).It takes some time for shy people to get comfortable around others, so be patient and try to ask open-ended questions to get him to talk more.
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QuestionHow do you make a shy guy fall in love with you?Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).You can't really "make" someone fall in love with you, but you can be very clear about your interest in them. Make it a point to talk with him whenever you can; pick up on his interests or hobbies and talk about them; attend events that you think he attends; be willing to tell him that you like him and would like to spend more time together. This can take a lot of the risk out for him.
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QuestionHow do you date a shy person?Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).Acceptance is key. Demonstrate that he or she is okay the way they are. Leave enough pauses in the conversation for the other person to enter in comfortably. Be willing to take some of the initiative. Don't push them into accepting a date in one meeting. Lay the foundation, and then ask the second or third time you run into them.
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QuestionHow do you get a shy guy to kiss you?Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).Over time, make it clear that you like him. Spend time together. Initiate conversations. Stand close enough to permit a kiss. Be willing to be quiet some of the time. He probably won't initiate a kiss in the middle of a lot of conversation.
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QuestionHow do you attract a shy guy?Klare Heston is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker based in Cleveland, Ohio. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983. She also holds a 2-Year Post-Graduate Certificate from the Gestalt Institute of Cleveland, as well as certification in Family Therapy, Supervision, Mediation, and Trauma Recovery and Treatment (EMDR).Try being a little low profile—not too loud or too talkative. Be willing to say hello and approach him first. Become more comfortable with silent pauses; don't rush the conversation.
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QuestionHow do you attract a shy guy?Moshe Ratson is the Executive Director of spiral2grow Marriage & Family Therapy, a coaching and therapy clinic in New York City. Moshe is an International Coach Federation accredited Professional Certified Coach (PCC). He received his MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Iona College. Moshe is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), and a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF).Show him that you have similar interests to build a connection. Try asking him open-ended questions about shared interests. This may help him feel more comfortable with you, making him more likely to open up to you.
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