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    How do I know that he is my soulmate?
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    You will know. Being with this person will be like listening to a song for the first time, they'll always shine for you amid a sea of people and you will be extremely comfortable in one another's presence, often with no need for words or explanations. You will click, you will feel as if you have known this person all your life and you will feel comfortable.
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    Is it possible that I could find my soulmate at 14 -15 years old?
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    You can find your soulmate at any age. That said, knowing you've found your soulmate doesn't mean you need to behave like you're already married. Everything in its time. Focus on school.
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    My soulmate barely notices me these days. We used to be such close friends and now she's marrying someone else. What should I do? I want to tell her not to marry him.
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    Sometimes life throws obstacles in the way of soulmates. But sometimes life also teaches us that someone we felt was a soulmate was actually a deeply, true and good friend but not a romantic soulmate. If you could see your way to loving this person as a friend and supporting their new relationship, you may be able to salvage the relationship and stay friends for life. If you try to stop the marriage, you will likely lose this person forever.
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    Is it normal to feel as though I'll be single my entire life?
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    Yes. We've all been there. It's very likely that you will find love; in meantime, work on being the best version of yourself that you can. Pursuing your interests and volunteering in causes you believe strongly in will improve the odds that you meet the person who's right for you.
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    What do I do if I've been looking for my soulmate for years, but I haven't found anyone?
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    There may be someone already in your life, right under your nose, that you haven't thought about in that way. Try looking at those in your circle of friends and acquaintances.
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    When is a normal age to find my soulmate?
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    You can find them at any time. It's different for everyone. Some people find them when they're a child, teen, or even an adult. Maybe the person you've been looking for has been right in front of you all along, you never know who it could be.
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    My boyfriend is ignoring me, but he keeps telling me he loves me and I'm the only one he wants to spend his life with. What should I do?
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    He may be going through a family issue or something more personal. Don't be afraid to ask him. If ignoring you is an ongoing issue in your relationship, you should try telling him how that makes you feel and ask him to try not to do it anymore.
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    What should I do if my soulmate is dating someone else?
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    Then you should move on to someone who’s available, or work on yourself and pursuing your interests. If your soulmate is dating someone else, now is not the time you're meant to be together.
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    How do I handle the loneliness of not having a soulmate?
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    Try to distract yourself. Work on yourself so that once you meet them, you'll be ready. Concentrate on work or school. If you know you have intimacy or trust issues to work on, get into therapy. Remember that it's not going to be this way forever; there is someone out there for you.
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    Should I leave a relationship if I'm infatuated with someone who doesn't seem like a soulmate?
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    Yes. Move on to someone you love wholeheartedly, and who you know loves you equally as much. You deserve it.
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    What do I do if I'm in a relationship but I don't feel like they're the one?
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    Be honest with them about that so you're both on the same page. It's perfectly fine if you want to just casually date the person even though they're not your soulmate, but if you're looking for something serious right now, you should probably just break up with them so you're not wasting your time.
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    What do I do if I can't choose between two guys who are both perfect for me?
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    You can make a list of pros and cons of dating each. Just don't take to long to decide because they both might move on.
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    Do soulmates really exist?
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    For some people they do. Others may not be so fortunate.
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    I have never been in a relationship. How do I find my soulmate?
    MarylynJaneOlsonSawin5995
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    Keep laughing and living your life. Act kind and considerate around others (especially people who attract you). And dress nicely. Remember, in time you will find someone.
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    What if you love someone but are not entirely sure if they fell the same way?
    MarylynJaneOlsonSawin5995
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    Start hanging out with them, and add in a little low-key flirting and eventually, you will know. If you are still not sure by then, ask him/her. Don't worry about it getting in the way of your friendship getting ruined if they don't love-like you. Or try telling a friend whom you know can't keep secrets. It will get around to them, and then if they know and they think you don't know that they know, then they are more likely to tell you.
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    Can my soulmate be any random person? What signs show that they are my soulmate?
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    Your soulmate can be anyone, it could be someone you already know or someone you haven’t met yet. You will not always know instantly but you will find out by fostering a strong relationship with that person. Remember true love takes time and no-one is perfect. Be open to different types of people but make sure you set boundaries.
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    Can I find my soulmate at any age?
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    There is no age for love, especially when it's about the person that is destined to you since birth. You can find your soulmate at any age.
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    What do I do if my soulmate is ignoring me?
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    Even though you may feel it's your soulmate, a person who's ignoring you clearly doesn't feel the same way and isn't interested; thus, the person isn't your soulmate.
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    What do I do if my soulmate is straight and I'm a lesbian?
    Community Answer
    Then you're obviously not soulmates. Keep looking.
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    What if I'm scared of choosing the wrong person?
    Isolde
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    That's a risk you have to take in life. You can write a list of pros and cons, you can write down the features you love most and find hardest to deal with, then see if this all matches up to your needs and wants. But sometimes it's a leap of faith as well as being rational about the choice, as love isn't an equation you can tally up and be certain about. If you're happy and feel good about yourself when you're with the person, this is a good indicator that the person is right for you; if not, it's not the one for you.
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    What's the difference between settling and having good enough standards when finding my soulmate?
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    Settling would mean giving up on a part of your life you thought you'd always have. Maybe you always wanted kids, and they don't, so your fear about being alone will force you to settle for no kids in order to keep your partner. If you stick by your guns, then you're holding out for someone who wants kids as well. This example can be adapted for city living, money expectations, the amount of attention you need, even the priorities you and your partner have. To keep standards is to remain steadfast in your needs. To settle is to sacrifice those needs, so don't settle.
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    What should I do if my soulmate is not interested in me?
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    If your soulmate isn't interested in you, it generally means one of two things: it's not time for you two to find each other yet, or it's not your soulmate at all. The best thing you can do is let the person see you enjoying your life and hope there's a desire to join in.
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    What do I do if my soulmate is married to someone else?
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    Don't do anything. If you really believe in soulmates, then you should also believe that, if you're right about this person being your soulmate, you'll end up together. Do not try to sabotage anyone's marriage.
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