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I am 30, and I'm in love with a woman that is 22. Will this age gap affect our relationship/possible marriage?

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It really depends on maturity levels and life experiences. Some 22-year-old women have lived very sheltered lives, and some have had many experiences that have allowed them to grow and become wiser than their years. The age difference will not necessarily hinder your relationship if you feel that you have a lot in common.

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How do I find the right girl if I am a preteen?

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Right now, you don't have to find the "right girl". You don't even know yourself yet, so you can't know who is going to be right for you. What you should be doing now if meeting and talking to lots of different people. Keep yourself open.

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I'm an 18 year old guy that wants to find a girl that I love, but my fear of infidelity and disloyalty keep affecting me from finding her. Can you help?

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Perhaps you could seek ways to get over your fears of infidelity and disloyalty by discussing it with a professional therapist. While in counseling, perhaps you could journal about why you have these fears (as a reference to remember for your future), how you’ve overcome them in the past, and anything else your therapist suggests. Concentrate on solving this problem for yourself first, then you can look for a partner.

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Should I marry a woman with purple hair?

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Do you love her? Does she seem like the right woman for you in the most important ways? Are you compatible? A person's hair color should not have any effect on your decision to marry them.

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How do I know if she is the right woman for me to marry?

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If she loves you for all your good attributes as well as your flaws, and if you love her for all her good attributes as well as her flaws, then she is the right one for you. She doesn't have to be perfect. Although you may face difficulties and hard times, if both of you stay together through it all and love even after everything, then you'll have a great relationship.

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I have a crush who is interested in my best friend, and besides my crush, there is another girl that shares a lot of my interests. Is she the right one for me?

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If your crush has feelings for your friend and not you, then it's probably best to move on. There's no way to know for sure if the girl who shares your interests is the right one for you, but the best way to find out is to get to know her better.

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How do I know she's right if I am only a junior in high school?

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You don't. Keep meeting new people to learn more about yourself, and if time after time you go back to the same girl, maybe she's right for you.

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How do I find the right girl and know she is the right girl?

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Patience is key here. Don't expect to immediately find her, as no one really ever succeeds the first time. You'll know she's the right girl when she has maybe some or all of the qualities you're looking for, enjoys things you enjoy and makes you feel like you're floating.

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Is it natural for one person to be good at maintaining a long distance relationship, whereas the other person is not good at this? How do I overcome such an issue?

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Everyone has different preferences, and whether or not the two of you are able to see each other a lot is one of them. Sometimes people are good with long-distance relationships, and other times they're not, and that is normal. Things like that are factors that are more important, so consider moving closer. If not, perhaps the relationship isn't possible in the way you both want it at the moment.

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I have a girlfriend. I'm in 5th grade. I am Korean and she is Chinese, is that okay?

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Your ethnic background does not determine love, so it is definitely OK. However, in the 5th grade you should probably worry more about learning more about who you are rather than dating.

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If I asked a girl out who said no but I really like her, what should I do?

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If she said no, then you have no choice but to respect her decision and move on, regardless of how you feel about her. You may find the advice Handle Rejection and Get Over a Crush to be helpful.

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Shall I ask a girl whether or not she wants to have kids before or after I ask her to be my girlfriend? Also, when is a good time to ask her about her religion?

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You should ask her if your relationship has lasted for a long time. Asking about these things too early may make her uncomfortable.

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