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What are the dos and dont's of body language when flirting?

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What's a good way to casually ask a girl you're flirting with to hang out?

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Try making theoretical plans together. They don't have to be specific plans like, "Let's go out on Thursday at 8:00 p.m. to this event." Instead, identify a mutual interest you both share, and then casually suggest future plans based around that. For example, if you both love cooking, you could say something like, "It would be so fun to go together to the farmer's market, get some fresh veggies, and cook something together one day." Or, if you're both talking about a love of comedy, you could say, "Maybe we could see a comedy show some time together."

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What should I say to flirt with a girl?

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Show your genuine interest in her. Ask her how she has been, what she has been up to. Try to find some common ground or interest of something you both have been doing, and mention possibly doing something together in the future. Avoid talking too much about yourself, or appearing needy, or being too sexual right away.

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I'm a girl. How do I flirt with another girl?

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You can totally use these strategies to flirt with your crush. As with anyone, try to get a read on their personality and tailor your flirting to their unique style.

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How do I tell a girl that I love her?

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You probably want to wait until you're in a relationship with her before you tell her you love her. If you're still in the flirting stage, saying "I love you," could scare her off.

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