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How can I look attractive as a middle school guy?

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Show off your smile to show that you're open and friendly. That way, other people may be more interested in approaching you.

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What if I do something awkward around him? Any lifesaving tips?

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Brush it off, laugh at your mistake, try to cover it up after, and distract him from what you just did. Everyone says weird things every now and then.

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What if he doesn't like the way you look?

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Then he isn't worth it! Don't let a guy change your personal style to one that you dislike.

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Can I text a boy first? The boy I kinda like never texts me first, but I know he likes me.

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Of course! Some boys are just too shy to do anything. Just because they're boys doesn't mean they have to make the first move.

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What if my boyfriend does not like the real me?

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Then don't be with him! You deserve a boy that likes the real you and lets you be yourself.

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What do you say when you flirt?

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Say whatever is on your mind! If the guy is interested, he won't care what your talking about as long as your talking. But as you talk, give off some body language.

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Can you flirt with two boys?

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Maybe, if you are not dating anyone. But if you want to avoid drama, you might want to just choose one.

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My crush told me he liked me and then said he says that to a lot of girls. Now I don't know what to do!

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Someone like this will likely cheat on you or not treat you right. Don't try to be with him.

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My crush often teases me in a nice/playful way (e.g calling me silly nicknames). Is this A sign he likes me? Thanks

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This is usually a sign that your crush likes you. Sometimes people do the opposite of what they mean.

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What if he is apart of the cool kids and im the average kid

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Never think you are just average! You are a unique and special person. Sometimes middle school is hard because of different groups, but just remember that there are things that make you special and cool too. Try to get to know him, be yourself, and if he likes you back it will be for who you really are.

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When my friend asked my crush if he likes me, he said "stop embarrassing me" because I was watching them, does that mean he doesn't like me?

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He might like you and doesn't know how to express it yet. There is no way to be sure without asking them.

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My best friend tries to insult me in front of my boyfriend because I know she also likes him. What am I going to do?

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You might want to consider if this is really your "best" friend. A real friend would not insult you, especially in front of your boyfriend.

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Any advice for shy people? I’m comfortable talking to people I k is and my crush and so text... sometimes but I get really nervous and shy to talk to him in person.

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This is normal, you will get more comfortable over time. Just be yourself and keep talking to your crush to get to know them and be more comfortable around them.

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My best friend really likes this guy but I like him too and he usually glances at me in class and do do I,I told her but she felt offended,I feel like he likes me but he could just think I’m weird....

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He might like you, but you should think about what is more important: your crush or your friendship. If you both like the same person, and you start something with that person, it could come between you and your friend. If your friend is really important to you then you shouldn't do anything to hurt the friendship.

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What if they asked if your name is Hot🔥

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This might be their way of telling you that they like you and flirting with you.

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How do you start a conversation with a boy in middle school

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Start by saying hi, and ask questions about things they like to get to know them. Try to find things in common you can talk about together.

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Well my friend dared me to ask out my crush and both times he paused a moment and either said 'no because (bla bla bla) likes you're or 'I don't know, I need to think about it' is this a sign?

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He might not be ready to date or he does not have the same feelings for you. If you want to be sure, then ask him if he likes you. If he doesn't, then be respectful of that and move on.

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