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How can I push the worldly thoughts away to develop a closer relationship with Jesus?

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Spend more time reading the bible, do not miss church services, befriend people who are good Christian models and pray without ceasing.

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Why is it that when I get closer to God, I go back to my old life after a while?

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You fall into your old habits because we are all sinners and keep falling into sin. Find an accountability partner to help you maintain your new habits.

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Can I go to the beach for quiet time?

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Of course! Going out and experiencing nature is a great way to get closer to Jesus.

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Why do I always cry when I pray?

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Because the Holy Spirit has touched your heart. It's not uncommon for someone to cry when thinking about their love for God or God's love for them. It means your faith is strong.

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What should I do if people take me for granted when I follow the verse where Jesus said, "Love others as you do yourself"?

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While it is good to love others as Jesus loves us, we should also remember that we were made in the image of God and we are His beloved, so we do not deserve to be taken for granted. If you find yourself in a situation where someone is repeatedly taking advantage of you, love that person from a distance by praying for them, and respect the person God made you to be.

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What should I do when it seems difficult to get closer to Jesus?

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Visit with a believing friend and ask for prayer. Spend time alone with Jesus just listening to worship music, intentionally not trying to get closer but trusting you are already close. Remind yourself that Jesus is ALWAYS there and always willing to draw close to you, and that this feeling of distance and difficulty is just a feeling.

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Why do I feel like God does not listen to me?

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He does listen to you. God will always be there for you. I have thought this, and God showed me that he was there for me. Never doubt that God doesn't listen to you. He does listen to you, He loves you, and He blessed the world with his Son, Jesus Christ for YOU.

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How do I focus while reading the Bible and praying?

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While reading the bible, empty your mind. Go to an isolated place, where you have privacy. Just as if you were studying. Have a pen and paper to take notes. Be a student to the Word of God.

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I feel like I'm saved but I do all these bad things. Why do I feel this way?

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Because we are still sinners. Yes, we are saved, but, we are also being saved, and will be saved. You feel this way because you need to get closer to Jesus -- the article will help.

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How should I pray?

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Try using the acronym "ACTS". This stands for adoration, confession, thanksgiving, supplication. Tell God how much you love him, confess your sins, thank Him for your blessings, and ask for something you need.

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What should I do if find it difficult to read the Bible?

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Get somebody who is knowledgeable about the Bible to read and study with you. This way, he or she will be able to explain or clarify the parts that you don't understand.

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Why should I talk to God?

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Talking to God is praying, and we pray because God works through our prayers. Even though Jesus does have all authority on earth and knows all our wants, the scripture says, "Ask and it will be given unto you." Hence we are called to open our hearts and ask God so we may receive. We must also try to listen to God and understand His word.

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How do I really stop myself from thinking sinfully?

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Matthew 9:4 "But Jesus knew what they were thinking and said, 'Why do you harbor evil in your hearts?'" Jesus knows what is going on in our minds and hearts. That alone should be enough to stop us from thinking sinfully. Would we sin if the entire world knew what we were up to? Of course not! So if you are conscious about pleasing Jesus, you can pray and divert your thoughts to something else when you are tempted. God will help you. Ask Him.

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Why is everything going wrong since my spouse died?

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It may feel as though everything is going wrong because you are still in deep mourning for your spouse. There is nothing wrong with this. Pray to Jesus to give your strength, and to help you through this difficult time. Don't worry; Jesus has not abandoned you or forgotten you.

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How can I know if I am saved or born again?

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If you believe that God sent his only son to die for our sins and you ask god to take over and you step to the side, you are saved.

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I have committed bad things. Will God forgive me?

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Yes, he will absolutely forgive you, through Jesus Christ! Pray and ask for forgiveness and then repent.

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Why do I feel like God does not listen to me?

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It feels that way because we assume that God listening to you equals you getting whatever it is you asked for, which is not always the case. Sometimes He has other, better things planned for you and He's trying to tell you that and to be patient. Maybe it's you, then, who isn't listening to what He's trying to tell you, because you are so absorbed in what you want, but not what you need.

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How can I get my spouse to believe in God?

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Preach all you want, but in the end, people have a right to their own opinions. Just be an example and live you life through Christ.

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How can I feel the presence of God when I'm praying?

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Don't get caught up in asking for things. Maybe put on some music that moves you, block out anything worldly and really think about the words you're saying.

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What should I do every time I feel like I've done something wrong?

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Pray and ask god for his forgiveness and move on.

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For what purpose I am created?

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You were created to be a vessel for God. He needs you to let Him live through you so that His will is carried out. He will bless you and you will have perfect peace in your life when you let Him live through you. You are to present your body as a living sacrifice to Him. His will is perfect and once you accept Him, you will see that his will is best for you, why? Because He created you for His purpose and He loves you.

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I made a promise to God that I would be good if he healed me, but I failed him (I fell into sin). How can I make it up to God?

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Ask for forgiveness. There is no sin that cannot be forgiven. God loves you and will forgive you. Sin is hard to avoid, which is why you should constantly pray to Him to help you walk down the right paths.

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How do I get lustful thoughts out of my mind?

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Sing a hymn, say a prayer, try to actively think of something more uplifting. If a certain place, friend group, or website has you frequently thinking lustful thoughts, you should avoid those things.

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What should I do if it is difficult to find a quiet place?

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If your home is too noisy, try visiting a nearby church or chapel to pray to God more comfortably.

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Why doesn't Jesus help me if He can see how much I'm suffering?

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He sees how much you're suffering for sure. He knows you need Him. However, He might want you to keep praying. Maybe He isn't ready to solve your problems yet, or He's trying to guide you to finding your own solution via prayer.

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Can I stay away from sin forever?

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No. No human is without sin. Just do your best every day.

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How am I supposed to feel when I'm getting baptized?

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Nothing special happens when you are being baptized. Baptism is just to announce to the world that you belong to Christ. It is purely symbolic - like wearing a wedding ring. I am married whether or not I wear the ring. Similarly, you are saved if you believe in Jesus irrespective of your baptism.

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How do I get my friends to be closer to Jesus too?

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Share the gospel with them. Pray for them. Be a role model. Show them what you stand for, and they'll probably respect and admire you and want to be like you.

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How do I remove impure thoughts from my mind?

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Read the Bible more and be around positive influences. Avoid too much phone or TV use, as that's where most of the negative thoughts stem from.

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Is it a sin to be married to a man who doesn't believe in God if I am a Christian?

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No. The husband who is not a believer is set apart for God through his believing wife.

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