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My boyfriend keeps looking at my chest. I know this doesn't sound like a real problem, but we just got into this relationship. I don't want ANY man to touch me in an inappropriate way, until I completely trust them. What can I do to make him stop?

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Talk to him about it. Tell him that he's making you uncomfortable and that there are boundaries, even in a relationship.

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What if he looks down still when I stop talking for a few seconds?

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Then he's extremely rude and inconsiderate. Speak with him directly about the issue.

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How do I prevent someone walking by from looking at my chest? Wearing ugly clothes works sometimes with young men, but not with the old ones. What can I do?

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Give him an angry stare. You also might bring your bag or purse up over your chest, and completely ignore him.

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What should I do when a boy uses a vulgar word to refer to my daughter's chest on multiple occasions?

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You should talk to the boy and his parents. Let him know that his behavior is unacceptable and disrespectful. Hopefully his parents will step in and educate him on how to behave and speak appropriately.

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What do I do if I like him (and the fact that he likes my big breasts), but still I want him not to see me as an object?

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You should try talking to him about the situation. Tell him you like him, but you're not comfortable with how he looks at you. He might be looking down because he is shy and not making eye contact, so try to read his body language.

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What if a guy says he wants to see my breasts?

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Confront him directly by telling him that your breasts are not an object to be ogled, and your body is not there for his viewing pleasure. Let him know that it is a violation of your privacy and personal safety to be asked. Tell him to ask himself how he would feel if someone suddenly asked to look at his penis.

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What if we are dating but I still don't want him looking or touching?

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That's fine. It's up to you to decide what you are comfortable with. Ask him to please stop. If he doesn't, you shouldn't date him anymore because he doesn't respect you.

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