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How can I get my crush's phone number fast?

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Just approach them and be direct. Introduce yourself and give them a compliment before asking for their number.

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What if I don't have a cell phone, only a landline?

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Landlines can still send and receive phone calls. Just let the girl know that you're calling from a landline, so if she returns the call, she may have to ask whoever answers to speak to you.

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How can I get a girl to like me and eventually ask for my phone number?

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Girls generally like to have guys ask for their numbers, not the other way around. But if you are a shy person, try small gestures (like notes). Also try to befriend her first; just be careful not to get friend-zoned and you should be on the pathway to a meaningful phone number.

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What do I talk about in between greeting her and asking for her number?

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If you want to be subtle, try asking her if she wants to join you in a group activity (it MUST actually be happening). For example, "Hey, me and a bunch of others are going to (insert place here) after school an Friday, do you want to come? You can bring some friends too, if you like." Now, hopefully she says something like "Yeah, that would be awesome!" Then you say, "Okay, I'll text you the details. Oh wait, I don't think I know your number, what is it?"

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How to start a conversion with her?

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Start by asking how she's doing, and move on asking about some of the things you know she's interested in. Ask questions, and keep the focus on her.

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If I can't talk to her, can I ask her friend for her number?

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Yes, it is, but I would recommend trying to become friends with her friend before you ask for her number so it doesn't seem jarring. However, the girl might be uncomfortable with you getting her number from someone else, so be prepared for that possibility.

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Somebody started a rumor that I'm an emo/goth that everybody (except for my friends) believes. Even the girl I like tries to avoid me. How am I suppossed to get close to her and talk to her?

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Just walk up to her and tell her, be honest and tell her how you feel. Show her the real you and believe in yourself.

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