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What do I do if I get pregnant from grinding?

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You won't get pregnant, unless your way of "grinding" is having sex or maybe you are grinding naked, i.e. there is a possibility of transfer of body fluids.

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How do I grind with my clothes off?

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Once you're both naked, do the moves described in this article. Keep in mind this will very likely result in something far beyond grinding (sex), so don't attempt this unless you're prepared to go there.

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Can you orgasm from front grinding?

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It's possible for some women, but not for most.

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Is it grinding if I only move my butt side to side, but he's still holding my hips?

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No, that is more like the Cha Cha, grinding involves getting in the squat position or bending your knees a little and moving your butt in circular movements.

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So this is basically a school appropriate clothed humping gesture? What if the guy starts to become more intimate and demanding, what do I do then?

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Sort of, but it depends on the rules at your school, grinding is expressly forbidden by many schools. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with. If a guy gets too demanding just tell him no. If he doesn't stop immediately, walk away.

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How can I grind nude and sexually?

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If you grind nude, you have the chance of it turning into something else (sex). The dance is already supposed to be a sexual dance, but you can grind harder and closer to made it more intense and sexy.

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When I don't want to grind with the person anymore do I just leave?

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You can thank them for the dance and go. At the end of the song, say you're going to go find your friends or get a drink or something.

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Does just an up and down motion work as well?

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No. Grinding should be a sexy, circular motion, not up and down.

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What if I am taller than my boyfriend?

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In this case I would probably just bend your knees or try the front-facing grind. This kind of depends on the height difference.

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What can I do to get noticed by my bff's brother at a dance?

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This article on how to get noticed by your crush may have some useful tips.

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What do I do if I want to have sex, but I'm only 11?

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It's perfectly normal to feel that way at your age, but you're just too young. You're not mature enough physically, mentally, or emotionally to have sex. It's hard to believe, but you wouldn't even be able to enjoy sex at 11 years old. Be patient. Wait until you're at least 16.

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What do I do if I don't like a guy and he wants to grind?

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Simply say that you don't want to grind. Be nice about it, though. If you'd still be willing to dance with him without grinding, just say you don't do that.

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How can I seduce my boyfriend while in class?

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Give him a few flirty looks. If there's eye contact, wink and then look away.

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Is it possible to grind on teddy bears and pillows?

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It's possible. You're not harming anyone, so if you want to do that, go right ahead.

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How do I do it with a pillow?

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I dont believe you can really. You need something standing straight up to push against.

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What if my butt is a little large?

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That's a good thing, most guys like larger butts.

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Is it appropriate to grind at a school dance?

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Usually there are rules expressly forbidding this, but if you don't know of any rules about grinding at your school, you can go ahead and try.

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Is it bad to grind if I'm only 14?

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Grinding is normally done by older people (older teens) in my opinion, but as long as it doesn't turn overly sexual then it should be okay as long as the other person wants to as well.

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Can I grind by myself, or do I need to have a partner?

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You can try doing it by yourself, but you won't really have anything to grind on.

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What do I do if my partner grinds me naked and penetrates me, and I don't like it?

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Is he violating you without your consent? Call the police and get him arrested. If you're a willing sexual partner but just don't like this particular maneuver, you need to gently let him know.

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Can the guy I'm dancing with pull me back and front in a rough way?

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Yes, if you like it. It's usually a good thing he's trying harder to get closer, but if you don't like it, tell him.

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Should I make use of the moment if the guy gets a boner?

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It's up to you. If you are both comfortable with the situation, then you could keep going.

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What do I do if a guy is thrusting so much that I almost fall?

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Tell him to slow down a little. It's not uncommon for guys to get a little carried away, just speak up.

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Can I grind on someone much older than me?

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Maybe, but if you are a minor and the person you want to grind on is an adult, I don't recommend it. Chances are you'll end up embarrassed when they ask you to stop, or they'll get in a lot of trouble if someone sees.

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Is it okay to grind back and forth between another guy and my boyfriend?

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Sure, if it's okay with both of the guys, there's nothing wrong with doing this. There's a chance some people might get the wrong idea and think you're "easy," though.

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What if I have a younger boyfriend and I'm found sexually grinding with him?

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It depends on where you are. You'll probably just be reprimanded and asked to stop, but if you're at school or something there may be a punishment involved as well. If you're an adult and your boyfriend is under 18, there could be legal repercussions.

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How would a boy take it if I want to grind with him?

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It depends on the boy and how he feels about you and grinding. If you're unsure if he wants to do it, ask first.

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Is it okay to grind like a girl if I'm a boy?

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There's a possibility you will get teased if you do it in front of other people, but if you really want to, go for it.

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How do I grind with someone who is much taller than I am?

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Simply don't bend your knees that much, depending on how much taller the person is.

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Am I supposed to twerk while a guy is grinding me?

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No, because grinding is a circular motion and does not include sharp movements that twerking does.

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