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My boyfriend came to my house, and we had sex on the floor in my room. I told him to stop (because it hurt), but he didn't. How do I tell him to stop? It's hard because I love him and he is great sex.

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Your boyfriend should stop if you tell him to stop. You need to be very clear about stopping him. Say, "Stop. I am not enjoying this" or, "No, stop, I want you to get off me". It feels like you are being bossy, but you have the right to stop him from hurting you.

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I want to have sex, but secretly, and don't want to get pregnant. Can my boyfriend wear two condoms to make extra sure I don't get pregnant?

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Wearing two condoms is a very bad idea. The friction between the two can make them more likely to break or tear than wearing just one would.

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I'm a teenage girl and my cousin (same age as me) tried to force me into sex. He failed and I want to tell my mom but I know she'll take things too far. What can I do?

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Tell your mother. It's never okay for anyone to try to force you into sex and your cousin needs to face the consequences.

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My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him and he forced me last week, what should I do?

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If you do not want to have sex with him, do NOT have sex with him. If he forces you, inform your parents and the police. If he doesn't respect your boundaries this is a toxic relationship and you need to get out of it immediately to protect yourself.

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What if no one's home and someone forces me to have sex and I can't stop them?

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Fight. Scream, bite them, kick, anything you can to get them off you. Then run out of the house and call the police.

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How do I tell my girlfriend that I want sex? She's also not enjoying any kiss, she says to not kiss her on the lips, only on the cheeks.

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If she doesn't want you to kiss her on the lips, then she is definitely not ready to have sex. Don't pressure her into it, and only have sex when you have her full consent.

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How can I tell if a condom breaks?

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You may hear a snap or feel the latex/rubber loosen. If not, the feeling might change.

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Can I get pregnant if a boy fingers me?

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If the boy has any semen on his finger, then the possibility exists. Otherwise, no, a girl cannot get pregnant from fingering.

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What do I do if my partner takes it too far? Like takes off my condom?

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Stop right away and inform them that you aren't ready to have sex without a condom. Remind them of the risks. If they insist, then stop having sex with them until they agree to leave the condom on.

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What should I do if my boyfriend, which is five years older than me, wants to have sex, but I am only fourteen years old and not ready?

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Tell him that you are not ready, and if he does not respect that, then you may want to consider leaving him. It is illegal for him to have sex with you at your current ages.

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Can I get pregnant if I haven't hit my period?

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Possibly. You begin ovulating before your period. If you haven't gotten your period, however, you are most likely way too young to have sex.

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What if I have cameras in my room?

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Then don't have sex in your room. Consult the article for alternate locations.

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How can I hide a hickey from my parents?

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Try putting on a fake tattoo over the hickey. It might look silly but you can say you lost a bet. You can also try wearing a turtleneck or a scarf. Makeup never looks quite right, and can actually draw attention to it.

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Can I have sex if I'm 16 years old?

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I'd say you are mature enough if you can protect yourself properly. Don't let anyone pressure you or do it just because 'everyone is'.

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My boyfriend wants us to have sex once a month. Is it safe?

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It depends on what you mean by "safe". Sex is never 100% safe, but if you are using birth control correctly, you are being as safe as possible.

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Can I have sex without using condoms but yet not make the partner pregnant?

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Your partner being on birth control reduces these odds, but is still not 100% effective. Without a condom, you also run the risk of the transmission of STDs.

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What do you do if he stops the sexual interaction but you want him to keep going?

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He probably feels that he should stop and you should respect that. You can ask why he stopped, but don't force him to do anything he is uncomfortable doing.

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What if I'm young but know I am ready?

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If you feel ready, make sure you are well-educated on all the risks and take proper precautions to avoid pregnancy and STDs. Be prepared for your relationship to change significantly, and not always for the best.

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What should I use during masturbation?

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Your hand, your partner's mouth or hand, a toy specifically designed for pleasure, as long as you can't hurt yourself with it, you could use whatever.

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How do I hide my pregnancy from my parents?

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You don't. They will find out soon enough and it's better to let them know as soon as possible so they can help you with obtaining pre-natal care or any decisions you have to make regarding your pregnancy.

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My 10-year-old son and his 10-year-old "girlfriend" had sex without a condom. What do I do?

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Alert the girl's parents. Have an honest conversation with your son. Someone may have taught him to do this, and it's important you find out the truth.

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What if there is a girl in my school in 9th grade who really wants to make out with me? Do I say yes?

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If you like her, I say go for it. If not, tell her you're not interested. Just make sure that you don't disrespect her boundaries.

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How old do I have to be to get pregnant?

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Any girl who has started her period, regardless of age, is capable of becoming pregnant.

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I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend who is the same age. We both talk about doing it all the time, but the thought of it afterwards scares me. Does this mean I'm not ready?

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Yes, that probably means you are not ready. Don't rush into anything, and don't let your boyfriend pressure you into anything. You will most likely know when the time is right.

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I'm 12, but I am FULLY aware of the consequences of sex. The boy I'm with is too. We are deeply in love. Is it too soon? We've been dating for a year.

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Personally, I think 12 is too soon for sex. I don't think being 'deeply in love' should have as much to do with the decision as how emotionally stable and ready you are to make the choice to have sex. No method of contraception is 100%; are you prepared to tell your parents that you're pregnant and make the tough decisions that would follow? Be honest.

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I am 10 - can I have sex?

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10 is much too young for either your body or your mind to be ready to deal with the consequences of sex. Explore masturbation if you feel ready, but focus on friendships instead of romantic relationships.

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There are a lot of girls at my school who aren't virgins. Should I be like them?

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Having sexual intercourse is a very personal decision and should not be influenced by what other people are doing.

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How do I buy condoms and birth control pills without a parent or guardian's signiture?

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Many free clinics give condoms and birth control pills out for free, and if you're at least fourteen, then you don't need a parent's permission. Call first to make sure.

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My breasts are growing very fast and they show so much through my clothes, I am so scared to ask my mum for a real bra, I am on a training bra at the moment. What should I do?

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You may find some helpful advice in the wikiHow article Ask Your Mom for a Bra .

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Is it better to tell my parents I am going to have sex or keep it a secret?

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It's better to tell your parents, especially if you need help obtaining birth control. Remember that your parents already went through most everything you're experiencing, and they can help you make big decisions like whether or not you're ready for sex.

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