Q&A for How to Hint In on Someone That You Like Them

Pretend that you're giving her some positive feedback. After a conversation, you could say "You're a really good listener! I felt really heard during that chat."

Make your compliment really heartfelt. "You have really soulful eyes" or "You have really intelligent eyes" are a couple of compliments you could try.

It all depends on your individual sense of humor (and your crush’s)! You might try something silly, like “Who has two thumbs and thinks you’re awesome? This guy/girl!” If you think your crush would appreciate it, you can also try a cheesy pickup line, like “Do you like raisins? Well, how would you feel about a date?” Playful teasing can also work well. Try something like, “Why do you have to be so sweet and smart and good looking all the time, you big jerk?”

It’s hard to guarantee that things won’t get awkward, but it helps if you don’t make a huge deal out of it. Find a moment when the two of you are relaxed and at ease, then say something like, “Hey, would you like to get dinner with me, as more than friends?” If you’re too nervous about talking to your friend directly, you could always ask a mutual friend to let it slip that you like them, then have them report back about how your friend responds.

Flirting, teasing them in a good-natured way, and offering friendly touches like hugs and hand-squeezes (if they’re okay with it!) are all good ways to hint that you like them. Doing nice gestures, like giving them little gifts, can also help. If you just don’t feel comfortable telling them your feelings out loud, you could always write them a note!