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How long should you wait to introduce your boyfriend to your parents?

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There’s not really a set rule, but a lot of dating experts advise waiting until you’re sure you’re in a committed relationship. While some people get serious pretty quickly, for most people that takes about 3-5 months.

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How long should you wait to meet your boyfriend’s parents?

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Talk it over with your boyfriend to decide on a timeline you’re both comfortable with. You’ll probably want to wait a few months to make sure the relationship seems serious and stable. If your boyfriend feels ready to introduce you, then around 3-5 months into the relationship is probably a good time.

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What if you’re scared to introduce your boyfriend to your parents?

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First, ask yourself why you’re scared. Are you afraid that your parents won’t approve of him, or that they’ll do something to embarrass you in front of him? Or are you scared that he’ll do something inappropriate in front of them? Once you’ve determined the root of your fear, brainstorm ways to handle it. For example, if you think your parents might do something embarrassing, try diplomatically asking them not to do that before he comes over (e.g., “Dad, could you please try not to talk about politics when Todd is here? I just want to keep things chill.”). If you’re afraid they won’t listen to your wishes, you can always warn your boyfriend what to expect so he won’t be caught off-guard.

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Where can I get them to meet if not at home?

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A restaurant is always a good place, or some type of event. My mom met my boyfriend when she came to pick me up from college. My dad met him at my sister's graduation. They both worked out well.

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If my parents don't like my boyfriend, how do I introduce the fact that he wants to get together and get to know them better?

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You should gently bring it into a conversation. Don't be too demanding about the matter, but not too shy either. Explain to your parents that if they give him a chance they may learn to like him, or at least to accept him.

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My parents are strict. How will I try to explain that I am about to bring my boyfriend home to meet them?

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Do your parents have a rule against dating while you're under their roof or until a certain age? If so, and you've broken it, you'll need to begin by apologizing and see whether you can persuade them to hang their minds about the policy. Either way, always tell the truth. Describe to them what your boyfriend is like, and hopefully, they'll be open-minded enough to let you invite him over for dinner so they can get to know him better.

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What if my boyfriend cusses a lot?

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If your parents don't like strong language, you should let your boyfriend know so that he can choose different words when he meets them. He should be able to understand the importance of making a good impression on your parents.

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