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    What happens if I have a pair of friends fighting to go to my place?
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    Can they both come over? If you're only allowed to have one friend over at a time, choose one and tell the other friend they can come over next time. If the problem is that your friends don't like each other, try to help them work out their problems. Find something they have in common, a game or activity they both like for example, and convince them to play together.
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    How do you invite someone over if you're awkward or have a crush on them?
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    Just act normal and invite him over for an innocent get together. Be yourself and talk normally, act normally and don't say anything related to relationships.
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    What if I'm afraid she will say no?
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    You want to regret the things you did in life, not regret the things you didn't do. You should just go for it. If she says no, ask why later. It could be because of a scheduling conflict, not necessarily because she doesn't like you or want to hang out.
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    What if my friend is scared of my parents?
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    Ask them why, and then convince them that your parents aren't scary. Ask your parents to be extra nice and welcoming when your friend comes over.
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    How can I convince my parents to invite someone over for dinner?
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    Describe the person in very positive terms and talk about how much fun you will all have together at dinner.
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    I got a new house and want to invite people to see it, but I never did anything thing like this before. What should I do, and what do I need?
    Tom De Backer
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    Set a date, think of some drinks and snacks to serve. Make a list of people you would like to invite, even if they don't know each other. Then be honest and positive with them; say: "Hey! I've never really done this before, but I would love to invite you to my new place and hope you would like that."
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    What do I do when my friend gets bored?
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    Ask your friend if they would like to play a board game, take a walk to the park, or watch a movie. If they don't want to do any of these things, ask them what activity they would prefer.
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    What if I am not close to that friend but I want to invite her?
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    Try inviting a small group (two to six people) so that she feels more comfortable about coming to vist and is more likely to accept. This should make you closer. Also, by inviting a smaller group she will feel that you do consider her as a close friend.
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    When is best time to invite a friend to my house?
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    If you have a close relationship with the person, then any time is good. If the person is of the opposite gender, then you need to talk with your parents first and get their permission.
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    My friend wants to come over, but she said she can't be bothered. What should I do to make her come over?
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    If she doesn't want to come over, she can't be forced, but maybe try meeting up somewhere fun or doing something fun.
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    My friends say bad words, but I am not allowed to. How do I get them to not say bad words in front of my parents?
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    My parents were the exactly the same. Tell your friends directly, "If you guys cuss around my parents, they might not let you guys come over anymore." That worked for me, but I did have to tell my friends multiple times to cut it out.
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    What is a good time to invite your friends over but not serve lunch or supper?
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    After 8pm, I suppose, but you should still have a snack on hand.
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    What can I do if my friend doesn't get along with my parents?
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    When your friend comes over, make sure your parents are not home. If your friend and your parents don't get along, it's probably best to avoid bringing your friend to your house. Maybe you should go to her house, or find another location to meet.
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    What if I ask my friend to come over but she doesn't want to?
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    That's okay. Sometimes people just have other stuff going on. You could always invite a different friend over and hang out with your friend that's busy some other time.
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    Do I show them around or just hang out?
    Emily C
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    Show them around a bit first so they won't get lost, then you guys can hang out together.
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    My friend says that she is going to hang with her cousin and our other friend in the summer. How can I ask her to come over when she can?
    Tom De Backer
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    Say, "I so look forward to spending time with you this summer. I can make it on these days [list of days]. When will you be free?"
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    How can I tell a friend that I won't be able to come to the block party at her new house?
    Tom De Backer
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    The format is: announce you have bad news, tell her how bad you feel, let her know you can't make it, (optional) tell her why, and ask for a new date. E.g. "Oh no, I just found out I can't make it to the block party! Now I won't get to see your new house. Are you free on Tuesday? Please say yes, I wanna see you."
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    How do I get invited to their house?
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    Maybe you could invite them to your house first, and then when they're leaving say something like, "We should do this again, maybe next time at your house?"
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    What if the person I want to have over already has plans?
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    Invite them over for another time and choose a different friend to have over while your other friend is busy.
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    I want to go to my friend's house but I don't want to be rude by inviting myself over. What should I do?
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    You should invite your friend over first. Then she or he will probably invite you over to return the favor.
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    How can I tell if my old bff still likes me?
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    Try talking to them and go from there.
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    What should I do with my friends if my house is small and I don't have much to do?
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    You could go hang out somewhere else, or you could meet at your house and go for a walk to the park, etc.
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    When I invite friends over my parents and siblings sometimes embarrass me in front of them. WHat should I do?
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    Perhaps it's best to find a day that your parents and sibling aren't home, so they can't embarrass you.
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    There's a friend from school I want to invite over to my house over the break. However, I can't be sure he'll respond to my emails, and I can't text. What should I do?
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    Email him. If, after a few days, he doesn't reply, go ahead and approach him in real life. He surely can't ignore you like that.
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    How do I invite a boy to my house as a 12-year-old girl?
    Tuckeriscute
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    Try to find the right time. If you like him and have been talking for a while, that should be fine. If you are worried about your parents, you could just invite him to go to the mall with you or somewhere other than your house.
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    My mom is a hoarder. It's so embarrassing. How can I invite any friends over?
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    Maybe instead of inviting them to your house try going to the park or go swimming those can be fun activities that don't involve your house.
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    My friend won't come to my place because she hates my brother. What should I do?
    Kailin Fauley
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    Maybe have your friend over when your brother is at his friend's house so he is not around. Or ask your parents to send him to your grandparent's house or somewhere else. And don't worry, your brother will grow up and become more mature.
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    Can I invite my BFF and her crush to my house? I'd like them to get to know each other better.
    Tom De Backer
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    Sure, but make sure they know each other is coming, otherwise you're forcing the issue, and that never works. To make it less awkward, invite two or three more friends, for a max total of 5 (otherwise these two can get lost in the group and it still doesn't work). It's a good idea for them to get to know each other better, well done. But it's not be entirely your job, so let them figure it out.
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    Why does the article say I have to get my parents to ask my friend over? Can't I do that myself?
    Tom De Backer
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    I think it depends on how old you are. Parents have to know where their kids are, and their parents will like to talk to yours to see if it's OK and maybe exchange phone numbers just in case. Also, you can't just invite friends over any time; maybe your parents have planned something today that you don't know yet. In the end, yes, you decide, but so do your parents.
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    Is it OK to ask my friend to my garden, but not inside my house? My mom doesn't like kids.
    Tom De Backer
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    Sure. But it is a bit awkward. But you can perfectly do this, no problem. "But we can only stay in the garden, my mom doesn't like it if we go in the house." Think of ways to show your mom how polite your friends can be. Ask your friends to be very kind and polite to her when they ask to use the bathroom, for example.
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