Q&A for How to Make Your Girlfriend Happy

Different people show love in different ways. She may say that she loves you or show her feelings through actions, like offering physical affection or doing acts of kindness to show that she cares. If you're already in a relationship with this person and not sure how she's feeling right now, the best thing to do is ask!

That's a decision she will have to make on her own. Be honest with her and tell her that you are interested in having sex, but respect her wishes if she says she's not ready. Don't try to pressure her into it if she isn't interested.

Not everybody enjoys physical touch. Have a talk with your girlfriend and ask her if she's okay with her touching you and if not, if there are other forms of affection she'd like better. If her dislike of touch is causing a lot of friction between you, it might help for both of you to talk to a counselor about it.

First of all, ask her if that's something she's comfortable doing. If she's okay with it, just use the same types of protections you normally would. While being on her period will make her less likely to become pregnant, it's not a guarantee. If you're worried about a mess, put a towel down under you on the bed or wherever you happen to be for easier cleanup.

If she still loves you, there may be a chance to salvage the relationship. Sit down and have a heart-to-heart talk with her about how she's feeling and why she's unhappy, and talk about possible solutions. If you really want to make things work but need some extra help, ask her if she'd be willing to go to couples therapy with you.

If your girlfriend doesn't feel comfortable telling you where she lives, respect her wishes and don't push the issue. Give her a chance to get more comfortable with you and do your best to show her that you are trustworthy and willing to respect her boundaries.