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Do I RSVP to a formal wedding invitation that did not include an RSVP card?

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Yes, you should always be polite and RSVP for any formal event, whether or not the invitation includes an RSVP card.

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How do I sign a text for a RSVP to a bridal shower if I don't know who sent it?

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You can just sign it with your name at the end and not worry about a salutation.

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Is the M_ on the RSVP card for Mr. or Miss or Mr.and Mrs.?

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It's whichever applies. You just complete the appropriate salutation (Mr. Mrs. Ms. Miss).

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I received an invitation to a wedding, and it was addressed to "Miss Denise Smith." Does that mean that I can't bring a date?

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RSVP saying "Miss Denise Smith wishes to accept your kind invitation." If you want to bring a date, you have to ask the person organising the wedding. It is considered rude to bring dates if they're not invited without telling the host as you are essentially adding another seat needed and more food required.

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How would I reply to an RSVP saying that I can't come?

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Explain you're really sorry you can't attend and give a brief explanation why. Then I would put something like, "I hope you have a wonderful time". So really, just be nice about it.

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If a single guest receives an invitation to an affair, and there are two lines on the RSVP section, does that mean the invitee has the option of bringing another guest?

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No, not necessarily. Unless the invitation specifies that you can bring a guest, I wouldn't make that assumption.

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If I need to decline a wedding invitation, but want to send a gift check, is it appropriate to send a separate card with gift check?

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Yes, just RSVP no and say 'I wish to send you a gift check.' It is fine because it shows you care about the couple's special day, even if you're not going to be there for the wedding.

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Does a host have to respond back to the guest if the RSVP is done by email?

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It is generally considered polite for a host to respond back to the guest if the RSVP is sent via email so the guest will know it was received.

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How do I address the envelope for the RSVP that I write?

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You can address it formally using Mr., Miss, etc. or just use their first and last name followed by the address. Most formal RSVPs come with return envelopes to save you any confusion.

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How do I reply to the RSVP line on an informal party invitation?

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Fill out the RSVP. Even if it is informal, many parties put in the RSVP so they know how much food is needed and what space to provide, etc.

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How do I RSVP for someone else?

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You'd do this the same way you would RSVP for yourself, after making sure you have permission from the person. On your reply, be sure to make it clear you're responding "on behalf of [insert name]".

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Are there companies that I can give the list of invitees to call and reply with the confirmations?

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Yes. If your event is a professional event at your work, ask your HR department or communications division to handle this task. Or look for a company that offers telephony services, cold calling, hot calling, or that does marketing surveys. However, there really is no need to go and call all the invitees. You send them an invitation; some reply, some will not. The number of positive replies will be a good estimate as to how many guests you can actually expect.

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I have a sleepover coming up October 31 at my neighbor's down the street. Their family is visiting with their dog for Halloween. Do I need to RSVP to them?

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Yes. You could confirm in person, by phone or by email.

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Will the invitation specify attire for certain events or performances?

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Yes, if type of attire is important, the invitation will specify what is expected.

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What is the appropriate way to RSVP formally?

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The most formal way is to return the RSVP card if one came with the invitation. This is the best way to help the bride stay organized during a complicated time in her life.

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What is included when you write an invitation with RSVP details and add-ons?

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The address of the party or venue and other specifics are added to the invitation.

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To whom do you need to RSVP in order to attend a Fourth of July party at my neighbor’s house?

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Talk to the host about the event to let them know you'll be attending. Ask whether you should bring anything. If the party is catered, you could bring a non-food gift, even though it's probably not necessary.

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I need to RSVP to a Fourth of July neighborhood gathering at my neighbor’s house.

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Call them to let them know you're coming. Ask what you should bring.

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Can you RSVP to invitations by calling the host or hostess directly to let them know you’re coming? What are some events that allow this?

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A Thanksgiving gathering would be an appropriate event for RSVP'ing by phone.

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My neighbor’s aunt is getting married, and I will be the maid of honor. Whom do I RSVP?

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It's probably not necessary for you to RSVP anyone, but if you want to, RSVP whoever sent you an invitation.

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Can i do direct RSVP via telephone to the host or hostess of the party or other event?

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That's up to the host/hostess. If they care what kind of RSVP they get, they will so specify on the invitation.

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My neighbors are hosting a Halloween sleepover party October 31 at their house. Can I RSVP and tell them I need to bring my costume and other sleepover items?

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Yes, do RSVP. They will probably assume you're bringing a costume and sleepover stuff.

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Who do I need to RSVP to attend Thanksgiving dinner?

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RSVP to the host directly about the dinner and ask about bringing anything.

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My godfather’s family is hosting a family reunion in their apartment this month, Saturday June 17, do I need to RSVP for the invitation for them to know I’m coming?

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Yes, if they are sending a written invitation, with a return card, or an email, you have to reply using the RSVP. If not, talk to him or his wife and let them know that you’ll be coming to visit on that Saturday.

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My godfather’s cousin is getting married next month, I will be the maid of honor. How do I RSVP to the bachelorette party and wedding invitation?

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RSVP to both the party and the invitation. As the maid of honor, it is my job and responsibility to send out the invitation to both events.

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I need to RSVP to a baby shower invitation. Whom do I call?

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Call the hostess to confirm the RSVP. Tell the family that you will bring to the party a gift for the baby.

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Do I need to RSVP to my cousin’s wedding and rehearsal dinner invitations?

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Yes, you do need to RSVP to those events. You can do so by calling the hosts of those events, the bride's parents and the groom's parents.

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