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    My crush is leaving temporarily. How do I say goodbye without being obvious?
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    Maybe you should just tell hem how you feel. Then you will have a lot taken off your shoulders. Then again, if you don't want to tell them, just say good luck or goodbye with a sweet smile that you give to everyone.
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    How can I say goodbye to people I may never see again?
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    It's hard, but remember that they will always be in your heart. If you want to keep in touch, ask if they would like to Skype or exchange letters.
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    My crush is leaving. How can I say goodbye without crying?
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    Does it really matter if you cry? Losing someone you care about is an emotional occasion and it's fine for friends to cry when parting, so just act as friends when saying goodbye and mention something like "I don't like to see a friend leave". That will excuse any tears.
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    How do I say goodbye to my dying boyfriend?
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    Stay with him. Hold his hand, and continue to say "I love you," even if you don't think he can hear.
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    My best friend is going far away due to a transfer. How do I say goodbye to him?
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    Try to keep it positive, but if you need to cry don't hold it it. He will probably feel the same way. Give him a hug, and make sure that you will still have some way of contacting him after he moves away.
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    How do I say goodbye to someone who is dying?
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    Sometimes you just have to keep it simple and quick to avoid it hurting that much. Because having to sit there and think about what to say to someone who soon won't be with you anymore hurts a lot more. It can also help to let them know it's okay to go, that can give them a sense of release.
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    What does it mean when I say "take care" to my ex boyfriend and he replies with "stop with the goodbyes?".
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    It probably means that he doesn't really want you to talk, which explains why he is your ex. So don't sweat it and move on.
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    A dear close friend of mine is dying and I can't do anything. I can't visit them and I'm not going to get the chance to say goodbye in person. How do I begin to deal with this?
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    Call. I missed my chance to call. When you call start with "hey, it's good to hear your voice." Your friend will lead the call. He/she will know what to say. You'll know how to reply. If your friend seems to lose train of thought or is less talkative, gently guide them to a goodbye with "you sound like you're getting tired. I want you to get some rest. You're a great friend and I'll be here for you to talk to whenever you need." Try not to remind your friend about passing on. However if your friend brings it up, follow their lead.
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    How can I say goodbye in a happy way?
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    Don't think about it being a goodbye. Think about it as being a see you later. Also think about all the good things that the parting will bring for the other person, so that you can truly wish them well for their trip or departure.
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    How do I say goodbye without actually saying "goodbye"?
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    You can say "see you around," "see you later" or "I look forward to seeing you again!"
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    How do I say goodbye to a teacher?
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    Say something like, "Thank you for all the knowledge you have given me. I will cherish every little piece of information." It will show that you appreciate her or him, but it is not too personal or emotional.
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    How do I say goodbye with as little pain as possible?
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    Pain is normal. Sometimes it's good to cry and spill some emotion, it will only show that you care and that will show the person that's leaving (or yourself) that you care. Remember all the other ways to stay in touch: Skype, the funniest letters possible, and phone calls.
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    How do I say goodbye to a close friend?
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    Follow the instructions listed in the article above.
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    How do I say goodbye to people if I'm committing suicide but I don't want the to know that I am?
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    Please don't commit suicide. Remember that you are loved and cherished by the people in your life, and that whatever you're feeling right now is temporary, even if it doesn't feel that way. Please talk to someone about what you're going through and get some help. If you're in immediate distress, call the suicide hotline at 1-800-273-8255.
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    Why do people think it's not okay to cry?
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    They see it as showing weakness, though this couldn't be further from the truth. Crying shows compassion and love towards a deceased relative, pet or friend. Many people like to cry as little as possible due to the fact they think it makes them look a little pathetic, which it doesn't, as crying shows your humanity, even if you've done something you regret.
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    How do I say goodbye to a loved one, such as a sibling or a parent, if I know I will see them in the next year?
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    Just tell them goodbye. That you'll see them next year. Don't be afraid to cry, it will show that you'll miss them. Call and text them at least once a day.
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    How do I say goodbye (forever) to the only friend I've had in 5 years? And I don't have her number or email address.
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    Can you ask her for her phone number or email address, or her parent(s)'s number or email address if she doesn't have one? If not, you could still get her home address and send regular letters. Just tell her that her friendship has really meant a lot to you and that you'll miss her very much. And don't worry, even if it doesn't feel like it, you will definitely make more friends.
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    How do I say goodbye if the other person doesn't know I'm leaving, like when you're running away?
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    You would have to tell them while you are saying goodbye. Alternatively, just leave a note as you run away.
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    How can I say goodbye to a therapist?
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    Follow the instructions listed in the article above.
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    How do I say goodbye to a relative who passed away?
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    Try writing the person a letter. Then you can go out to a quiet place and read it aloud, or you could burn it or bury it or do whatever feels right to you.
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    How do I say goodbye to someone who is leaving for a long time?
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    Try to keep it positive, but if you need to cry don't hold it back. This person will probably feel the same way. Give a hug, and make sure that you will still have some way of contacting him after he's gone.
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    How can I tell my fiance I'm dying? I'm sure he'll become more closed off than he is now and will probably either kill everyone around him or will not talk to me and just do nothing.
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    If you're legitimately concerned that your fiance will kill someone, you need to talk to the police immediately. That is a very serious situation. If you're worried about his mental health, suggest that you go to counseling together, and tell him in the presence of the counselor. You're going through something huge, and you should be concerned with yourself and surrounded by people who love and support you. You should not be spending your remaining time on earth worrying about someone else's feelings and reactions.
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    How can I say goodbye to someone I don't like?
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    Just be polite and wish them good luck with wherever they are going or whatever they are doing. It might be impolite and rude to do otherwise.
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    How do I say goodbye to a friend I met online?
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    Usually, a nice "See you later" is good, if it's online, and you want to seem chill and cool. Maybe you can add a bit of internet slang like "See u l8er" as well, but not so much as to your friend can't understand what you are saying.
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    How can I tell my friends who only talk to me because their mothers make them that I wish them the best in life and I'll always love them?
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    Exactly like that. Tell them that it is okay if they don't want to talk to you. Tell their mothers that you are okay with this and you're not going to be upset about the friendships ending.
  • Question
    My exchange student is going back to Japan. How can I thank her for her time with us so she can understand it?
    Y NGUYEN
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    You can say a simple thank you to her and give her a hug or a gift in gratitude. You could also write down what you want to tell her in a letter in Japanese, so she can read it.
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    I am leaving because my family is moving. How do I tell my crush I like her before I leave?
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    Tell her how you feel. You can have a friend tell her so you're not nervous, or write a note.
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    My crush (who likes someone else) is leaving to go to another school. How do I say goodbye without making it obvious to everyone else?
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    Confess before he goes! Tell him how you feel before it's too late. You never know what might happen. If you don't want to do that, just tell him it was really nice getting to know him and you hope he enjoys his new school.
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    I lost my grandma recently due to cancer. I loved her so much. I was the only one who said goodbye before she died. I can’t stop crying. How do I get over this?
    Top Answerer
    It’s normal to be sad about a loved ones passing, and it’s all right to cry. Remember that you loved her, she loved you, and remember the good times you had together. Talk to someone about your feelings. Spend time with your family. Mourn as much as you need to, but don’t forget to take care of yourself. It can be hard, but keep in mind that it gets better.
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    How do you say goodbye to someone dying while crying?
    Elle
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    It's fine to cry, cry all you need. Hug them (if you can), try to smile through your tears, tell them you love them and anything else they need to hear, hold their hand and be there for them.
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