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    What's the difference between cuddling and snuggling?
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    There's no difference! Snuggling and cuddling are actually just different words used to describe the same thing.
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    How could we cuddle on the bus ride to a school field trip?
    Christopher Morton
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    Sit next to the person that you are trying to cuddle with and just gently lean on them or hold their hand, if you are comfortable with one another.
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    How do I hug a lesbian without it being awkward?
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    Why would it be awkward? You would hug a lesbian just like you would anyone else. Ask her permission first, as you should with anyone you want to hug.
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    How would I cuddle in school?
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    Find a proper and private spot, sit down next to each other and just do it.
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    How can I be more risque?
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    If she feels comfortable, try to move your hand up her shirt, on the back at first, then try the front and see how she reacts. Ask her if it's okay, and if she says yes, you can go further from there.
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    I used all of your tips, and my girlfriend said I was weird and awkward.
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    There's nothing wrong with those tips. Apparently they simply don't work for you. Just try to be relaxed and pleasant around your girlfriend. That's probably all she's looking for.
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    What are some signals from a girl showing that she’s open to cuddling during a movie?
    Asa Wunderink
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    If she leans closer to you, has her legs uncrossed, is looking at you a lot, is making physical contact or if she suggests it, it's a good idea to go for it! If you're newly together, it's a good idea to ask, but after a while you don't need to ask.
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    How do I get a girl to be comfortable when cuddling?
    Asa Wunderink
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    Start with an arm around her, and let her move to how she feels comfortable. They like it if you put your arm around them, then move closer so your legs are touching. If she drops her arm from your back, she may just be shifting to make herself more cozy. Lying down, it feels nice for them to have their head on the side of your chest, and your arm around their back.
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    How do I cuddle at school?
    Asa Wunderink
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    Keeping a gentle arm around his/her back is a good way to maintain physical intimacy without getting too many weird looks.
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    What do we do if we haven’t told anybody about us dating but we still want to hug?
    Asa Wunderink
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    Find a quiet place by yourself, and go ahead! A good idea would to be to go on a hike with her and watch the sunset on a hill. Put your arm around her and see where it goes. It can be hard to tell people that you're dating, but people won't judge you. If they do, you're not in the wrong. Just don't worry too much and it'll be fine. The best place to start is with parents and close friends.
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    My girl and I are looking for a comfortable way to cuddle on the bus. I don't want to hurt my hip, so leaning on her is out of the picture.
    Asa Wunderink
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    You don't have to lean on her. Just put your arm around her shoulders or the small of her back.
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    If I’m bi, would it be any different?
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    No, either partner could cuddle in either position regardless of gender or sexuality.
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    What is the difference between snuggling and cuddling and do I need a condom?
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    Snuggling and cuddling are basically the same. Snuggling and cuddling do not require a condom because people generally have their clothes on and it is not sex.
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    Do guys like it when girls fall asleep with their head on the guy's chest and legs in their lap?
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    It depends on the guy. Try it a couple times and see his reaction. Generally guys like whenever they are with their girlfriends.
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    What if something kills the mood?
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    Depending on what it is, just get comfortable again, and she might go back to cuddling.
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    How do I snuggle with my boy when we just started dating?
    Lyla McCarthy
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    Gently show him that you want to snuggle. Lean in close, and act like you want to snuggle.
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    How do I snuggle with my girlfriend but then prepare for us to kiss?
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    Snuggle like you regularly would and then if you guys lock eyes, slowly tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly. But if she pulls away, don’t take it harshly––as some girls just don’t like to kiss suddenly. You can always ask the question like “may I kiss you”?
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