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How do you talk to a girl in school you don't know?

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Ask a girl questions about herself and talk about the things you have in common to keep your conversation going.

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How do I make her want me more?

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You make her want you more by liking yourself more. The more you like yourself, the more she will see that you are content with yourself and don't care if she is in your life or not. That makes you more attractive!

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What do I do when me and a girl are being awkward and not talking?

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Depends on the situation. Sometimes it's best not to say anything. Sometimes just having some open ended questions can help get the conversation flowing naturally again.

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What if she doesn't give you her phone number?

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Don't pressure her. Continue to be a friendly face. Perhaps she will come around soon.

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What if you have been in her class for years and made a bad impression?

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You need to work to fix her impression of you. Work on improving yourself and becoming a better person and she will begin to see you differently. If you have offended her in the past, apologize genuinely.

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What should I say when I see her with her friends?

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If you know any of her friends, you could try sparking up a conversation with one of them first, and then talking to her. Or you could wait until a moment when she is alone. You could also try to call her over to you, hoping that she will come.

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I find it very difficult to talk to girls because I go to an all boys school, so I don't know any and when I get a chance to meet them it is at a dance/mixer. Any tips?

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Ask a girl to dance when you are at the mixer. If you like her and enjoy dancing with her, ask for her phone number so you can continue talking.

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