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How can I protect myself when using the ouija board?

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If you ask your higher self to be the guide, then the spirit that you want to talk to doesn't actually get in your body. It will stay outside of your body, outside of your energy field, and it will still be able to communicate with you.

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How can I close off my energy before using the ouija board?

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Remember that all information comes to your higher self. To close off your energy, you need to make some type of affirmation saying something like "Make so only my highest good comes to me".

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Are you allowed to pull your fingers away from the pointer after each question? I was watching some videos online (and I know they we're probably fake because of how obvious they were acting), but when you are in an actual conversation with a spirit, can you occasionally raise your hands of the pointer?

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No! Never raise your hands off of the pointer because this is just like stopping without saying goodbye. This could let the spirit out. Never do this.

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Why can't I ask the spirit or demon to show themselves?

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It is highly recommended NOT do this because if you can SEE a spirit, it has escaped from the board.

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What if one of us gets scared in the middle of the conversation?

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If anyone gets scared or anxious, it's always best to say goodbye. Spirits can sense fear and will often use it to their advantage

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If a negative spirit comes in the board, what will it start doing?

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It will want to take advantage of you by making you scared to help it possess you and harm you. Don't trust spirits as they might be lying to you.

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What if the spirit is counting down in sequence? Should I just take the pointer and end the session?

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Yes! Once the sequence is over, or done, the spirit is released into the world. This is particularly done by negative spirits.

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Why do you need to say goodbye?

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It is important because it allows your connection with the demon/spirts to break. If the pointer goes on goodbye, then ask a question: "spirit, are you there?" If the pointer doesn't move, it just breaks the contact between you and the spirit.

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Is it good to have a ghost as a friend and is it good to ask them if they want to be friends?

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A spirit could manipulate you if you form a friendship with it as spirits lie just as the living do.

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If I spilled some water over the board, is it bad?

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Yes. Water attracts evil spirits. Next time you play it, make sure to clean the board thoroughly, so there is no water on it.

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What if we have pets in the room. Can they be affected?

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Animals in the room can be affected just as much as humans. If the spirits want to connect with them, they will.

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How do you end safely?

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Just be polite and say something like "Nice talking to you, rest in peace", then end the session.

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If the pointer stops moving in the middle of the conversation, what does that mean?

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It either doesn't understand what you are saying or it doesn't want to communicate with you.

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How do I make a board out of household items?

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You can make a Ouija board at home using paper and markers.

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Can I ask the name of the being?

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Yes, you can. It may or may not tell you, though. Don't worry, most spirits won't be offended if you ask it for its name.

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Can I specifically ask for a certain person that I once knew to come?

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Yes, you can. It is best to have something that was theirs with you. Try concentrating on your loved one before asking them to come forward.

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How do I specifically connect with your family?

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You should take an article of clothing, such as a necklace or a wedding ring, that they wore or a photograph of the individual, and put it on the board.

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Can I use it alone?

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You CAN use it alone, but if you do then you're putting yourself at risk. Sometimes, ghosts or demons will move items in a room, and if you're by yourself, they can use it to attack you.

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Can you store the Ouija board and its pointer in the same box?

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It's not recommended that the pointer be stored in the same box as the board, as it risks leaving the door to the spirit world open. Store the pointer in a cloth bag away from the board to prevent this.

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If I use a Oujia board to connect with family, is it safe?

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Yes, more or less. Sometimes other spirits will pretend to be that family member, so try to ask it some personal questions only they would know.

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Is it okay to watch a YouTuber using it?

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It is fine to watch a YouTuber using it. It also might help you to see what might happen and will help you prepare a little. There is nothing dangerous about watching videos about a ouija board.

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If I know that the spirit is good, can I allow it to escape and possess something, like a stuffed animal for example?

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Never let it! Bad spirits can pose as good ones or as past family members in order to persuade you to set them free. Be safe.

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Can I set the board on a table or does it have to be on my lap?

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It's better for the board to be on the table or a surface in front of you.

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How many circles do I start with?

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You start with making a circle for each person. For example, if there are eight people, you should make eight circles.

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Can the spirit lie about if it's good or bad?

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Yes. Very much so. Be very careful with this. Notice the actions or words used. Be very, very cautious.

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Is it safe for me and my family? After ending a session, is there any chance that the spirit will try to communicate with me later?

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Complete safety is never certain when using a ouija board. The best chance of safety is to research ouija boards and specific types of spirits, be prepared, and end the session if you feel uncomfortable. The spirit can speak to you later if you use the ouija board again. If it gets out, it can communicate with you by using things.

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How could I communicate with my dad? He died last year, and I want to know a few things.

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Try getting a few things that were special to him. Put the item or items around the board. Good items to use are his wedding ring, a picture of him, and a piece of his clothing.

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What should I do if an evil spirit starts to haunt me?

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You can use the tips from this article: How to Get Rid of Demons .

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Can I ask how they died?

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Yes, but don't try to force it out of them, they might get mad or embarrassed. It's also okay to ask if you can guess.

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What do I tell my friends if they are using the board unsafely?

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Tell them to stop doing that and tell them the safe way to do it. If they continue this unsafe behavior, leave the place. You warned them. Tell their parents if they are kids or teenagers.

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