How to Tell if a Virgo Man Likes You

Co-authored by Stina Garbis and Aly Rusciano

Last Updated: September 18, 2024 Fact Checked

Honest, dependable, and charismatic? There’s no denying why you’re falling for a Virgo man, but how can you tell if he likes you back? Naturally reserved and a little bit shy, it can be hard to tell if a Virgo man likes you, so we’ve compiled a list of signs to help you out.

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He goes out of his way to grab your attention.

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He likes things to be in a specific order, so you know he likes you if he starts changing his plans or doing things for you that aren’t on his to-do list. Maybe he takes a day off work to see you or drives out of his way to go to a party you’ll be at. He’s changing his perfect routine to fit around you, and he won’t let that go unnoticed. ^{[1]
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He can’t help but look at you.

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A Virgo man is sure to be caught glancing your way if he likes you. He’s a perfectionist and won’t jump into his feelings right away, so he’ll study you to make sure he knows exactly what he’s feeling. ^{[2]
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} When he does approach you, he wants to make sure everything’s perfect. ^{[3]
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- Smile back at him or give him a small wave when you notice him staring. You’re aware he’s watching, so own it!
- Dress nice when you know he’ll be around or glance flirtatiously back. ^{[4]
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 Stina Garbis
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 Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} Showing him you’re also into him will ease his worries.

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He does everything he can to be around you.

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He might stand closer to you when you're in a group of mutual friends together, or he may start visiting your favorite coffee shop at the same time you do. There are no coincidences with him as each chance encounter is part of him trying to get to know you better. ^{[5]
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He reaches out to you on social media.

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The first step for a Virgo man will most likely be digital. If he really likes you , he will do everything he can to make sure he comes across as the most perfect prince. As a naturally shy guy, a Virgo man might not talk to you face-to-face at first he has butterflies! He wants to talk to you in every way he can, and that could mean turning to social media first. ^{[6]
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- He might start liking your posts more often or commenting whenever you post a new status update.
- If you like him back, return the digital affection. Like his posts and comment on his pictures. Flirting with him through social media will grab his attention as much as it grabbed yours.

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