How to Sleep with a Pregnancy Pillow

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Pregnancy or maternity pillows are fabulous solutions for troubled sleep or to relieve the various aches and pains that come while carrying a child. There are a number of different designs and materials, and choosing the right one for you can be the difference between a restless night and a good night’s sleep. We’re here to show you how to use all the different types of pregnancy pillows, what to consider when buying one, the benefits, when to start using one, and how to use it after giving birth. We'll even provide tips for getting a great night's rest, so keep reading!

Using a Pregnancy Pillow

Lie on your left side with your head on top of the pillow. Then, rest your belly on top of a wedge pillow, or on the arms of a U, C, or J-shaped pillow for support and to relieve pressure. Relieve hip pain by wrapping your legs around the pillow, as well.

Section 1 of 5:

Sleeping with a Pregnancy Pillow

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  1. While lying on your side, place the narrow edge of the wedge pillow under your belly to relieve strain on your stomach. [1] Or, lay on your back with the pillow elevating your head to relieve pressure on your lower spine.
    • Benefits: Wedge-shaped pillows are great for relieving pain and pressure in your belly or back, and are great for sitting upright while awake. Elevating your head with a wedge while sleeping on your back may also relieve reflux.
    • Feel free to place your usual pillow on top of the wedge-shaped pillow for added comfort.
    • These pillows are also great for sitting upright while awake.
  2. Lie with your head in the curve of the C, then wrap your arms and legs around one of the “arms” of the C-shaped pillow while lying on your side to support your belly, relieve neck pain, and keep yourself stationary during the night. Lie with your belly supported by the pillow, or with the C’s opening cupping your belly, for more freedom. [2]
    • Benefits: These pillows provide support for your head, neck, back, and pelvic area. They are great for relieving pelvic tension and reducing water retention in your legs and ankles.
    • C-shaped pillows are typically the most expensive, and largest, pregnancy pillows. J-shaped pillows can be used similarly, and make great, smaller, and less-expensive alternatives.
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  3. Rest your head on the curve of the U-shaped pillow , and settle in between the arms of the pillow. Lie on your back or side and hug 1 arm of the pillow with your arms or legs, if you like. [3] Placing the pillow between your legs and arms will help relieve tension in your knee and ankle joints.
    • Benefits: U-shaped pillows offer a bit more freedom and flexibility than C-shaped pillows, while still providing security and limiting movement.
    • U-shaped pillows are also often large and more expensive. If you’re on a budget or have a small bed, opt for a J-shaped pillow, instead.
  4. Wrap the curve of the J-shaped pillow around your neck while you sleep on your back or side, rest your head on top, and hug the pillow with your arms and legs, if you prefer. This position gives your lower and upper back, as well as your pelvis, support while you sleep.
    • Benefits: These pillows are great for when you need a smaller, more maneuverable shape than a C or U-shaped pillow.
    • These pillows can help prevent you from rolling on your back while you sleep, which is great if you find that position uncomfortable.
  5. These pillows are most commonly used by sleeping on your side and wrapping your arms and legs around them. You might also use them to elevate your feet while lying down, or position them under your lower back to stretch and relieve pressure on your spine. [4]
    • Benefits: I-shaped pillows, also just called body pillows , are incredibly versatile, and ideal for someone who likes to have a little freedom and wiggle room while still being supported.
    • You might also place your belly on top of them for support.
  6. Pregnancy pillows aren’t a must, and oftentimes, a regular pillow can get the job done just fine. Stack pillows to elevate your feet or head, place one under your belly or lower back to relieve pressure, or embrace one while lying on your side for more comfort and security.
  7. While these are the most popular positions for each of these pillow shapes, don’t hesitate to experiment and go with what works for you. You might even use more than one, or multiple shapes, to find your optimal sleeping position. As long as you’re comfortable, you’re doing it right!
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Selecting a High-Quality Pillow

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  1. Both of these fillings are hypoallergenic, as well as water- and smell-resistant. These fillings are also washer-friendly, keep their form, and are lightweight for easy maneuverability. [5]
    • Pillows with this type of filling are typically less expensive, though prices vary by size and pillow shape.
    • Just remember, whatever pillow you choose, make sure it can support your weight and will not lose its shape throughout your pregnancy; for example, if you are a plus-size woman, you may want to choose a memory foam pillow since these tend to hold their shape better.
  2. Pregnancy pillows filled with styrofoam balls are very lightweight. Additionally, the balls allow the pillow to conform to your body easily. While these pillows tend to be much cheaper than others, they do make more noise as you move around, similar to the noise a bean bag makes. [6]
    • Pillows with styrofoam ball filling are generally not machine washable, so make sure to choose one with a removable cover that you can wash.
  3. Pillows made with microbead filling are more supportive than the ones with styrofoam ball filling and, while more expensive, are still on the cheaper side—around $40. They are also very lightweight and make very little noise as you move around. [7]
    • Pillows with microbead filling may or may not be machine washable. If you choose one that is not, make sure it has a removable cover that you can wash.
  4. Pillows made with memory foam conform to your body and hold their shape very well. However, memory foam is not very breathable, so these pillows can become very hot as you sleep throughout the night. [8]
    • Memory foam pillows tend to be more expensive, around $100 or more, depending on the size of the pillow.
    • Additionally, memory foam pillows are typically machine washable.
    • If you're worried about becoming too warm at night, try a pillow with shredded memory foam. This has many of the same benefits, but more air can move through the pillow, cooling it down.
  5. Pillows with removable covers are great because they make keeping your pillow clean very easy. All you need to do is remove the cover and wash it per the instructions on the tag. Look for pillows with zip or slip on covers. [9]
    • If the pillow you like does not have a removable cover, then make sure it is machine washable and can fit inside your washing machine.
  6. If you’re taller than the average woman, look into getting a pillow that is 8 to 11 feet (250 to 350 cm) long. If you are average height, then get a pillow that is 5 to 6 feet (160 to 170 cm) long. The size of the pillow you want will also depend on the size of your bed and your personal preference.
    • For example, if you have a small or mid-sized bed, make sure to get a pillow that is not too big for your bed.
    • The length of the pillow can also be affected by style; for example, U-shaped pillows tend to be longer than the other types of pillows.
  7. Although it may be tempting to get a soft pillow, it is recommended that you get a pillow that is at least slightly firm. A firmer pillow will provide more support and keep its shape longer. It may be uncomfortable at first, but over time you may get used to it. [10]
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Benefits of a Pregnancy Pillow

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  1. The largest benefit of a pregnancy pillow is just getting comfortable! When you’re pregnant, your body can get stressed under all that extra weight, leading to joint pain in your neck, hips, back, and shoulders. A strategically placed pregnancy pillow can alleviate these pains, leading to a better night’s sleep. [11]
    • Elevating your legs with a pregnancy pillow can also help collected fluids drain and circulate back into your body.
    • Elevating your head may help reduce reflux, nausea, heartburn, and sinus congestion.
Section 4 of 5:

When to Use a Pregnancy Pillow

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  1. The truth is, pregnancy pillows aren’t a necessity, they’re just a handy invention that makes your life easier. There’s no set timeline, but many women start feeling the burden of their bellies in bed at around 20 weeks. Introduce a pillow then, or just whenever you feel like you could do with a little more support at night. [12]
  2. Even after your baby is born, you may find that you still need some support as your body gets back to how it was before pregnancy. As before, you may keep using your pillow to relieve pressures and pains, or just to help get into and out of bed.
    • That said, avoid using a pregnancy pillow with your newborn unless directed by your doctor. These pillows often aren’t made for infants, and may lead to stress or injury if used incorrectly.
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Section 5 of 5:

Sleeping Better While Pregnant

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  1. Sleeping on your side while pregnant is often considered by experts to be the safest position. Sleeping on the right side of your body may strain your liver with the excess weight, and lying on your back may limit your blood flow, as the weight presses on major veins. [13]
    • Of course, lying on your stomach is often impossible without a specialized, more expensive pillow, but even then it’s not recommended.
    • Also, avoid sleeping on your back in the second and third trimesters to avoid putting weight on your uterus and spine. [14]
    • That said, shifting position while you sleep is totally natural, and your body will tell you when something’s wrong, so don’t sweat it too much. [15]
  2. Your body tends to operate at higher temperatures when you’re pregnant, so it’s vital to keep your bedroom nice and cool at night. Turn up the AC, turn on a fan, or open a window to get some airflow. [16] You might also invest in more lightweight blankets.
  3. Exercise is super important for pregnant women! It keeps your blood pumping and your body working as it needs to support a child, and fights cramps and promotes sleep during the night. [17] Go for a walk in the sun each day, or even just on the treadmill. You might also bob around a bit in a pool, or use an elliptical for a sit-down exercise.
  4. Caffeinated drinks keep you up and energized, so only consume them in the morning if at all. Then, try not to eat or drink much within 3-4 hours of going to bed, as too much food or drink can lead to nausea. Instead, have larger meals in the morning and afternoon, and keep evening meals to light snacks, like fruits or veggies. [18]
    • Also, try to urinate just before bed to avoid late-night trips to the bathroom.
  5. Many pregnant women experience cramping in their calves or thighs during the night. To avoid this, stretch your legs just before bed. If you do cramp up, stand on the cramped leg, or place your feet flat on a wall while lying on your back and press hard on the wall. [19]
    • Adding calcium and magnesium to your daily meals can also help, like with dairy or seeds, but avoid taking supplements without your doctor's opinion.
  6. Your body likes a routine, and if you go to bed and wake up at the same times each day, it becomes easier to sleep through the night. It helps your body to go on a sort of “autopilot” and get into the habit of shutting down. [20] Also, aim to get 7-9 hours of sleep each night.
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      To use a pregnancy pillow, try placing a wedge-shaped, U-shaped, or full-length pillow under your belly while you lie on your side, which will help relieve your back muscles. You can also wrap your arms and legs around a U-shaped or full-length pillow to relieve tension in your knee and ankle joints. To give more support to your lower back and pelvis, wrap a C-, U-, or J-shaped pillow around your back while you sleep. To find out how to support your head and neck or why a memory foam pillow may benefit you, read on!

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