250 Dirty Would You Rather Questions for Couples, Friends, & Parties

A classic game of Would You Rather never fails to spice up any social gathering or convo—from an everyday chat with friends or a romantic partner to a first date or party. And if you’re looking for a complete list of the silliest and spiciest Would You Rather questions to ask your crush, S.O., or BFF? You’ve come to the right place—keep reading for a list of every flirty and forward question you could possibly imagine.

The Best Flirty Would You Rather Questions

Would you rather be a good kisser OR great in bed?
Would you rather receive a lap dance OR give one?
Would you rather make out in the rain OR the backseat of a car?
Would you rather watch an adult film OR read erotica?
Would you rather listen to rap music OR nature sounds during sex?

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Spicy Would You Rather Questions for Couples

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Get even closer to your S.O. with these intimate Would You Rather Qs. Getting to know a partner on a deeper level is crucial to developing intimacy in your relationship. ^{[1]
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- ... live stream all of our arguments OR never use the Internet again?
- ... playfully wrestle in bed OR have a tickle fight?
- ... have a sexy water fight in the shower OR the pool?
- ... explore the Kamasutra OR take a steamy couple’s yoga class?
- ... cook together in the nude OR take a sexy dance class together?
- ... switch clothing with me now OR be naked for the rest of the night?
- ... write your desires on my body OR whisper them in my ear?
- ... write erotic fiction OR create an intimate photo book together?
- ... watch a steamy movie OR listen to seductive music during sex?
- ... recreate a scene from your favorite sexy movie OR steamy novel?
- ... have sex once a week OR 22 times a month?
- ... have sex in complete darkness OR in front of a mirror?
- ... always have sex in the dark OR with the lights on?
- ... have airplane sex OR elevator sex?
- ... have sex in a haunted house OR a city dump?
- ... have sex on a water bed OR a bunk bed?
- ... have sex on the beach OR in a forest?
- ... have sex in a public bathroom OR a public library?
- ... have sex in a hot tub OR under a waterfall?
- ... have sex in a vineyard OR an art gallery after hours?
- ... have sex in an antique armchair OR on a fluffy rug?
- ... have sex in your childhood bedroom OR childhood basement?
- ... have sex in the shower OR on the floor?
- ... have sex on a table OR against a wall?
- ... have sex in the bathroom OR the kitchen?
- ... have sex in front of a fireplace OR by the light of 100 candles?
- ... cuddle in silence after sex OR have a deep conversation?
- ... wake up to a good morning sext OR a sensual voice message?
- ... wake up to oral sex OR a full-body massage?
- ... wake up to gentle kissing OR provocative touching?
- ... be treated like a good person OR a naughty person in bed?
- ... talk dirty OR be talked dirty to?
- ... always OR never have sex under the covers?
- ... have sex when it’s really cold OR really hot?
- ... have me leave sexy notes around the house OR send you sexy emails during the day?
- ... whisper naughty things into my ear at a party OR send explicit texts while at dinner with friends?
- ... do a sensual workout OR have a dessert course where we eat off of each other?
- ... spend an evening making aphrodisiac cocktails OR baking seductive desserts?
- ... try aphrodisiacs for a night OR have a week of celibacy to build tension?
- ... come home to a bed covered with rose petals OR a home-cooked meal?
- ... write “must-try” list OR create a “fantasy jar” that we pick one idea out of per week?
- ... have a passionate kiss in public OR sneak away to get frisky at a private part?
- ... have to be on top for the rest of your life OR on the bottom for the rest of your life?
- ... have sex in a sleeping bag while camping OR in a hammock on a secluded beach?
- ... have sex on a boat under the stars OR in a field during a thunderstorm?
- ... have sex in a luxury penthouse hotel room OR a cozy cabin in the woods?
- ... have sex in a cozy tent while camping OR in the back of a luxury SUV on a road trip?
- ... have sex in a school classroom OR under the bleachers at a sporting event?
- ... shower together by candlelight OR take a bubble bath surrounded by glow sticks?
- ... have passionate sex after a fight OR make love tenderly to resolve a conflict?

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Spicy Would You Rather Questions for Your Crush

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Use these flirty Would You Rather questions to break the ice with a crush. When you’re talking to a new potential love interest , expert dating coach John Keegan recommends playing a game such as this one to make conversations “a lot more engaging than, ‘Hey, where are you from? Where did you grow up?’” Depending on how comfortable you feel with a crush, try turning up the heat and ask if they’d rather…
- ... see a movie every week OR go on a wild adventure?
- ... watch the sunset OR the sunrise?
- ... always skip the first date OR always have to go on a third?
- ... meet someone on a dating app OR at a bar?
- ... commit a minor crime on a first date OR get matching tattoos?
- ... end a date with a good night kiss OR a sweet compliment?
- ... have breakfast in bed OR a candlelit dinner?
- ... eat a meal made by your partner OR go out to a fancy restaurant?
- ... go on a hot air balloon ride date OR a bungee jumping date?
- ... take a dance OR cooking class with someone?
- ... try pole dancing OR lap dancing?
- ... have 10 kids OR zero kids?
- ... sleep with someone on the first date OR wait for six months?
- ... be a good kisser OR great in bed?
- ... be a bad kisser OR bad at giving oral sex?
- ... be extremely good in bed OR extremely conventionally good-looking?
- ... marry the hottest OR smartest person on Earth?
- ... receive a lap dance OR give one?
- ... skinny dip at midnight OR sunbathe nude?
- ... have a naughty outdoor picnic OR a sultry nighttime swim session?
- ... go to a sex party OR an all-nude strip club?
- ... play Naughty Truth OR Dare OR Strip Poker?
- ... play naughty charades OR have a sexy scavenger hunt?
- ... play a game where the loser has to strip OR where the loser has to complete a dare?
- ... play Naughty 20 Questions OR have a sexy storytelling session?
- ... cuddle OR make out?
- ... make out on the beach OR a park bench?
- ... make out in the rain OR the backseat of a car?
- ... make out in the last row of a movie theater OR the back of a taxi?
- ... make out in Paris OR a hidden forest retreat?
- ... be serenaded with a love song OR be read erotic poetry?
- ... be serenaded with a sexy song OR watch a striptease to your favorite song?
- ... go skinny dipping in a private pool under the moonlight OR a lake at dawn?
- ... have a date night with massages and aromatherapy OR adventurous but sexy challenges?
- ... wear lingerie OR no underwear at all under your clothes for a date night?
- ... be seduced (or seduce someone else) with a strip tease OR a lap dance?
- ... play a sexy game of Never Have I Ever OR an erotic game of Hide and Seek?

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Spicy Would You Rather Questions for Best Friends

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Make your friends giggle and blush with some lighthearted but juicy questions. If you’re looking for a fun game to play with your best pals , then some naughty Would You Rather questions will definitely liven things up and make you grow even closer. Ask your besties if they’d rather…
- ... audition for The Bachelor OR Love Is Blind ?
- ... audition for Love Island OR Too Hot to Handle ?
- ... have a significant other OR employer look through your phone?
- ... have all of your exes OR your partner’s most recent ex show up at your wedding?
- ... know every person who’s ever had a crush on you OR meet your soulmate tomorrow?
- ... have your dating profile set up by your mom OR your ex?
- ... get ghosted OR dumped over text?
- ... never view your ex’s social media again OR have them move in next door?
- ... have a partner who is kinky OR romantic?
- ... be in a long-distance relationship OR be single?
- ... have a partner who’s super jealous OR super apathetic?
- ... have a partner who’s a terrible cook but tries OR who’s a great cook but never does it?
- ... have a partner who has the same OR different hobbies as you?
- ... have a partner who wants to change the world OR is satisfied with a simple life?
- ... have a partner who’s always early OR always late?
- ... have a partner who’s obsessed with their looks OR their fitness?
- ... have a partner who works too much OR never works?
- ... have a partner who snores loudly OR talks in their sleep?
- ... have a partner who laughs at everything you say OR takes everything seriously?
- ... have a partner who wants to live in the city OR the countryside?
- ... have a partner who’s super organized OR super spontaneous?
- ... have a partner who never gives you gifts OR only gives impractical gifts?
- ... be able to read your partner’s thoughts OR have them read yours?
- ... have phone sex OR zoom sex?
- ... create a naughty playlist OR write dirty poems?
- ... receive a romantic poem OR a dirty limerick?
- ... get a steamy love letter once a week OR a sexy “good morning” pic once a day?
- ... spend an entire day building up sexual tension OR have immediate satisfaction?
- ... watch adult films OR read erotica?
- ... livestream your best sexual experience OR publish a memoir of your worst?
- ... accidentally shout your ex’s name during sex OR your partner’s best friend’s name?
- ... have a one-night stand OR a bubble bath with a stranger?
- ... have a one-night-stand OR a friends-with-benefits arrangement?
- ... have sex with only one position allowed OR have sex with no touching allowed?
- ... have to sleep with your friend’s partner OR a random person off the street?
- ... have to sleep with your partner’s sibling OR your best friend’s sibling?
- ... have a one-night stand with a stranger OR your childhood best friend?
- ... make out with a stranger OR your best friend?
- ... have sex with your most recent boss OR your high school principal?
- ... have sex with a coworker OR one of your college professors?
- ... have sex with your celebrity crush OR your high school crush?
- ... have sex with your celebrity crush OR your favorite adult film star?
- ... hook up with a fictional book character OR an animated character?
- ... give up penetrative sex OR oral sex?
- ... never have foreplay again OR only have foreplay forever?

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Spicy Would You Rather Questions for a Party

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Get the party started with some raunchy conversation-starter questions. Would You Rather questions are great to throw out at a party to get people talking and start to break the ice. After all, sharing your answers to the silly and spicy Qs below is sure to loosen everyone up and get in the party mood! Ask your fellow partygoers if they’d rather…
- ... get a naughty temporary tattoo OR wear glow-in-the-dark body paint in a private area?
- ... have a sensual food fight OR a sensual body painting session?
- ... use body chocolate OR edible underwear?
- ... use body glitter OR scented oils?
- ... use different types of massage oils OR different flavors of lube?
- ... use a colorful OR flavored condom?
- ... receive a sexy voicemail OR an explicit photo?
- ... leave hickeys in hidden places OR somewhere visible?
- ... only kiss one person for the rest of your life OR kiss multiple people but only once?
- ... only be able to kiss someone on the neck OR never get kissed on the neck again?
- ... have a one-night-stand text you “I’m pregnant” OR “I have an incurable STD”?
- ... sleep with your boss for an instant raise OR work hard to get promoted in 5 years?
- ... make an OnlyFans OR publish a sex tape?
- ... post a nude on Instagram OR Facebook?
- ... post your search history online OR read all of your texts aloud at your next family party?
- ... watch adult films every night forever OR never watch them again?
- ... have your fave adult film category written on your forehead OR have to describe a sex dream about your boss at your next meeting?
- ... accidentally send a nude picture to a parent OR a boss?
- ... accidentally send a nude picture to a neighbor OR a boss?
- ... have your roommate catch you pleasuring yourself OR having sex?
- ... finish randomly in public for the rest of your life OR never be able to finish ever again?
- ... be caught giving OR receiving oral sex?
- ... have morning sex OR late-night sex?
- ... be cursed with bad sex for the next five years OR not have sex for an entire year?
- ... have incredible sex that only lasts ten minutes OR average sex that lasts an hour?
- ... have sex that only ever lasts three minutes OR three hours?
- ... only have sex with the first person who made you finish OR the most recent?
- ... have only extremely loud sex OR totally silent sex?
- ... have the best sex with someone you hate OR terrible sex with someone you love?
- ... have sex once a year with the same partner OR only one-night stands forever?
- ... only be able to have sex in cars OR showers?
- ... give up kissing OR all kinds of sex?
- ... only have sex with your worst partner forever OR have the most mind-blowing sex once and become celibate?

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Funny & Spicy Would You Rather Questions

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Go for a funny Would You Rather question to keep the game light and silly. A funny (but still spicy) Would You Rather question is great for light-hearted hang-outs with friends, parties where you don’t know anyone too well, or just a date night with your partner where you want to make each other giggle . Ask if they’d rather…
- ... never wear underwear OR socks again?
- ... wear someone else’s dirty underwear OR use their toothbrush?
- ... end every phone call with “I love you” OR start every call with “Hey, sexy thing”?
- ... be a virgin again OR have all of your sexual memories erased from your brain?
- ... obviously finish every time you come near a piece of fruit OR never finish again?
- ... sneeze OR fart every time you finish?
- ... cry every time you finish OR finish every time you cry?
- ... shout “I love you, Mom” OR “Long live the Queen” every time you finish?
- ... kiss someone with bad breath OR extremely chapped lips?
- ... be with someone who talks in a fake British accent OR a baby voice during sex?
- ... smell like sex all the time OR smell like poop all the time?
- ... use mayonnaise OR ketchup as lubricant?
- ... have sex while covered in cat hair OR sand?
- ... only be able to have sex if a tarantula is crawling on you OR never have sex again?
- ... be allergic to sex OR allergic to making out?
- ... wear socks during sex for the rest of your life OR turtlenecks to bed for the next month?
- ... be stranded on a desert island with your ex OR your boss?
- ... go to the mall in your underwear OR to the beach nude?
- ... watch a couple kiss for five minutes straight OR a sex scene with your parents?
- ... have sex with a goat but no one finds out OR not have sex with a goat, but everyone believes you did?
- ... a one-night stand make you breakfast OR order your Uber?
- ... watch your parents have sex every day forever OR join in just once to stop it?
- ... have sex with someone dressed as a Pokémon OR someone dressed up as Dr. Phil?
- ... have totally silent sex OR sex with someone who talks dirty in a really annoying voice?
- ... only speak like Borat during sex OR have a partner that only speaks like Borat during sex?
- ... have a stranger watch you have sex OR watch you eat a full holiday meal by yourself?
- ... give up all types of oral sex OR give up cheese forever?
- ... give up all types of oral sex OR give up bread forever?
- ... never have sex again OR never eat your favorite food again?
- ... engage in foreplay involving chocolate syrup OR whipped cream?
- ... engage in foreplay involving ice cream OR honey?
- ... eat sushi OR ice cream off someone’s body?
- ... have a sex playlist of only Taylor Swift songs OR only Blink-182 jams?
- ... listen to rap music OR nature sounds during sex?
- ... never use sex toys again OR never use a microwave again?

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Deep & Spicy Would You Rather Questions

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Offer a deep question to really get to know someone more intimately. If you want to really connect and bond with the person you’re playing Would You Rather with, ask them something more personal about their sex or love life! The more personal details you know about a person, the more likely you are to strengthen an intimate connection. ^{[2]
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- ... be popular in high school OR have lots of friends as an adult?
- ... always tell the truth OR always lie?
- ... lose your sense of taste OR touch?
- ... find out your BFF’s boyfriend is your soulmate OR have your bf fall in love with your BFF?
- ... date someone who’s still in love with their ex OR be the person in love with their ex?
- ... have a short, passionate romance OR a stable, long-term relationship?
- ... have a great sex life with lots of conflict OR a lackluster sex life with no conflict?
- ... have sexual issues OR financial issues with your partner?
- ... forget your partner’s birthday OR anniversary every year?
- ... never get to spend your birthday OR anniversary with your partner?
- ... have an extravagant wedding OR a simple ceremony with close family?
- ... be proposed to in private OR with family and friends?
- ... have a romantic OR funny proposal?
- ... marry the love of your life OR receive a million dollars?
- ... have only 5 years with the love of your life OR find them but never be with them?
- ... receive 5,000 dollars to spend on traveling OR on your partner?
- ... have more money OR more time with your partner?
- ... adopt a pet OR have a child without your partner being ready for it?
- ... spend your life with someone you don’t love OR someone who doesn’t love you back?
- ... have a partner who’s disliked by your friends OR whose friends don’t like you?
- ... be more OR less attractive than your partner?
- ... reveal your deepest sexual fantasy OR share your most embarrassing sexual story?
- ... cheat on a partner OR be cheated on?
- ... marry someone with no sexual experience OR a lot of sexual experience?
- ... say “I love you” first OR have it said to you?

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Kinky & Spicy Would You Rather Questions

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Ask these adventurous questions to a romantic partner or very close friend. If you want to lean into the spiciest side of spicy Would You Rather questions, try these Qs to learn more about someone's sensual or sexual tastes. Ask if they’d rather…
- ... be teased with a feather OR with ice cubes?
- ... get a sensual oil massage OR a stimulating feather massage?
- ... make a blindfolded guess as to a partner’s lip gloss flavor with a kiss OR their perfume scent with your nose?
- ... guess the flavor of exotic oils on someone’s skin OR try out different aphrodisiacs on each other?
- ... have a seductive wrestling match OR compete to see who can tease the other most without giving in?
- ... come home to someone dressed in only a bow OR dressed up in a provocative costume?
- ... come home to someone in the nude OR dressed only in an apron?
- ... wear (or have someone else wear) high heels OR be barefoot during intimate time?
- ... have a partner wear leather OR lace?
- ... role play that you and a partner are strangers OR historical figures?
- ... visit a sex shop OR watch sexy videos with someone?
- ... play a dirty question game OR act out a fantasy?
- ... surprise a partner with a new sex toy every month OR choose a monthly fantasy to complete?
- ... have someone control your vibrating underwear on a date OR use a remote-controlled sex toy at home?
- ... never be able to use sex toys again OR never be able to have sex with another person again?
- ... be the plus one in a couple's threesome OR have a threesome with your significant other and bring in a third?
- ... have a sexy dance party with your partner at home OR dance in a club where others might join?
- ... have sex with multiple people at once OR join the Mile High Club?
- ... have a risky public quickie with your partner OR plan an intimate and romantic evening at home?
- ... have foreplay with a partner who can only use their hands OR with a partner who can only use their mouth?
- ... watch strangers have sex OR have strangers watch you have sex?
- ... have only “vanilla” sex OR only “BDSM” sex?
- ... date someone with a foot fetish OR with a voyeurism fetish?
- ... have a partner who’s into elaborate role-play scenarios OR into spontaneous quickies in risky places?
- ... have a cupboard full of adult toys OR revealing outfits?

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How to Play Spicy Would You Rather

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Take turns asking players “Would You Rather” questions. Pose a question to another player that provides two opposing scenarios in the format “Would you rather _____ OR _____ ?” Usually, the question presents two undesirable options or two options that a player would be equally interested in. The player must then answer the question by selecting one of the options. Then, they can ask a new question to another player. ^{[3]
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- Play continues in this pattern until players get bored or run out of questions.
- “ Would You Rather ” can be played with any number of people, but requires at least two players.
- If desired, players can choose a consequence for someone refusing to answer a question. Maybe they have to complete a dare or take a shot (if everyone is over the legal drinking age).
- When using a numbered list of Would You Rather questions, players can choose random numbers or use a number generator to select their questions rather than having to come up with a new question on each turn.
- Looking for more fun and spicy questions? Check out wikiHow user suggestions on the "What are some fun/spicy questions to ask a girl?" forum page.

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