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Birthday cards are a wonderful way to let someone know that you are thinking of them on their birthday. Start with “Happy Birthday” and then add a few heartfelt and sincere sentences. Take the opportunity to share well wishes, kind words, funny memories, or maybe even a pun with the person.

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Writing Kind Words

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  1. Birthday cards are a great chance to wish someone the best for the future. This is a great option for both close family and friends, and acquaintances. [1]
    • For example, “All the best for the year to come” or “Wishing you a wonderful year full of great memories.”
  2. This is a great way to make the card personal and sincere. Include traits that you love about the person and ways that they inspire you. Try to be as specific as you can, as this helps the card to feel more thoughtful. [2]
    • For example, “You are such a kind, generous, inspiring, and fun Mum” or “You are a wonderful friend and partner to me. I am inspired by the way that you love so selflessly.”
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  3. Birthdays are a great chance to look back and reflect on the year that has passed. Celebrate any major achievements or milestones of the person, such as engagements, weddings, graduations, new jobs, or the birth of a child. [3]
    • For example, “Congratulations on graduating from college this year. All the best for your new career.”
    • If the person has had a hard year, include something like “Congratulations on making it through a tough year.”
  4. This is a wonderful way to make the person feel celebrated. Write a sentence or two about the ways that the recipient of the card adds value to your life. This is particularly meaningful for a partner, close friends, or family member. [4]
    • For your partner you could write, “Thanks for making my life more fun, exciting, and joyful. You make my life so rich.”
  5. Good memories are wonderful to reflect on. Think about some of your favourite moments that you have shared and then write a short note reminiscing that memory. For example, “I really treasure all the memories of our shared holidays at the beach.” [5]
    • This is best for someone that you know well.
  6. Take the opportunity to write a meaningful message about how much you love them and how your love for them grows each year. Include specific things you love about them to make the note more personal. [6]
    • For example, “I love you to the moon and back. My love for you increases every year. I’m so grateful to have such a kind, giving, and thoughtful partner.”
  7. Let your relationship with the recipient dictate how you write the card. If you have a professional working relationship with the person, use traditional birthday wishes, such as “Wishing you a happy birthday and a wonderful year to come.” [7]
    • ”Warm wishes” or “Best” are appropriate formal ways to sign off a card to a co-worker.
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Including Humour

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  1. The most common birthday jokes tend to be about getting old. For example, you could write “another year closer to receiving your seniors discount” or “Happy 20th! You’re halfway to 40!” [8]
    • Avoid mentioning the person's age if you know they are sensitive about it. Also, try to stay away from jokes about death, as this will make some people uncomfortable.
  2. This is a great way to add a personal touch to the card. Mention any funny personal jokes that you share or any amusing memories. [9]
    • For example, “Remember we dressed up as giraffes at Steve’s jungle party. I often look back and laugh at that memory!”
  3. Think about the recipient's interests and write a relevant pun. For example, if the person likes golf, you could write, “I hope that your year to come is above par.” If the person likes to play rock music, you could say, “I hope your day rocks.” [10]
    • If you get stuck for puns, search online to get some inspiration.
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Choosing a Card

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  1. Most gift stores stock cards with numbers on the front. These are especially popular for big birthdays, such as a 1st, 5th, 13th, 16th, 18th, 21st, 30th, 40th, 50th, 60th, 70th, 80th, and 90th.
  2. Think about the interests of the person that you are buying the card for. For example, if they love animals, consider purchasing an animal card. Popular card designs include flowers, cars, movie characters, and sports. [11]
    • Purchase cards from a gift store, supermarket, or homeware store.
  3. An eCard is a great free way to let someone know that you are thinking about them. Search online for an eCard that has a design that you like. Type a message to the person and then send it to their email. [12]
    • SmileBox, Blue Mountain, and ThousandWordCards are popular eCard vendors.
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    What can I write on a birthday card for my best friend that won't sound cheesy or weird?
    Angela Hu
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    Just write "Happy Birthday!". Tell them you wish them a happy birthday, where the party is taking place (If it's a surprise party), and who is invited. It's okay to make your card short. You can just add a lot of drawings in there.
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      If you’re wondering what to write in a birthday card, try wishing the person well for the year to come with something like “Wishing you a wonderful year full of great memories.” Alternatively, celebrate the year they’ve had if there was a major achievement or milestone. For example, you could say “Congratulations on graduating this year. Have a great birthday and all the best for your new career.” If you’re close to the person, you should take a more personal approach by telling them how much they mean to you. To write a birthday message to your mother, for example, say something like “Thank you for being such a kind, generous, and inspiring mom.” You can also try sharing a specific memory, such as “I’ll always treasure the memories of our shared holidays at the beach.” For more advice, including how to write a humorous birthday card, keep reading!

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