Ask her one-on-one Make sure it’s just the two of you when you ask her out to avoid having her respond under social pressure or being embarrassed. Be natural Make small talk and normal conversation before asking her out as it will seem more natural. Her: “Have you seen the trailer for the new Marvel movie? It looks amazing!” You: “Yes, I really want to see it too! Would you like to go see it with me this weekend?” Be sincere Putting yourself out there isn’t easy, so be aware of how you react to her response, especially if she says “no” or “maybe.” Don’t pretend your asking was a joke as it will damage your friendship in the long run. Her: “Well, no, I don’t think so.” You: “Okay, I understand.” Be creative Don’t be afraid to be a little mysterious with the details, especially if you know she likes surprises. “Can I take you on a walking adventure after school today?” “Are you interested in being my outdoor flower-foraging buddy this afternoon?” Invite her along to pre-planned events This is a good way to relieve any pressure she feels to say yes, since you’re already going with or without her. “I have an extra ticket for the basketball game on Saturday, would you like to join me?” “I’ll be going to the drama kids’ improv show this Thursday. Want to come with?” Ask her out for a group event If you’re not ready to ask her on a one-on-one date, ask her to join you and your group of friends to hang out. This will lay the groundwork for a deeper connection by giving her an idea of who you are and the types of people you hang out with. “A group of friends and I always go out for dinner on Thursdays after debate club, would you like to join us?” “Would you like to play soccer in the park with me and some friends after school tomorrow?”