Start a conversation with him, instead of waiting for him to approach you. “I saw you went for the sandwiches at the buffet. Are they any good? I’m torn between that and the mashed potatoes, but I’m too full for both…” “Hey, tell me about the basketball game last weekend! I heard it was crazy…” Show off what makes you unique and interesting. “Yeah, I really like to draw. My teachers would say I like it too much, my notebooks are all doodles and not so many actual notes, haha. I’d do it as a job if I could. Are you into anything artistic?” “I actually love to cook, but I don’t like cookbooks. I usually make up my own recipes. It can be really fun and turn out great, or I burn everything and have to go out to eat that night. There’s really no in-between, haha.” Tease him lightly. “I’m still in shock that you got the highest score on that test…Did the rest of the class agree to fail and let you get it for once??” “That’s cool that the baseball team won yesterday, but I still think the softball team could beat you guys anytime. No way could you get a hit off of us!” Be positive and ask upbeat questions. “Oh, I didn’t know you went to Costa Rica. That’s awesome! What did you guys do?” “It is so hot. As soon as I get home, I’m jumping in the pool… or just eating a bunch of ice cubes, I haven’t decided yet, haha. At least the day’s almost over… do your last two classes have air conditioning?”