Bring up something you have in common. “That’s actually my favorite coffee blend they have here. Not many people get it. How do you like it?” “You were in Mr. Lazarov’s math class, right? I’m Peter. I’m so glad that class is over… I think if we’d had one more exam last year, I would’ve failed the whole class, haha.” Talk about something nearby. “Your dog is awesome, I can’t believe how good he is at fetch. How old is he? I’m Liam, by the way.” “I think this is the longest baseball game I’ve ever been to! How many bags of peanuts do you think I’ll need to get through it?” Give her a genuine compliment. “I love that book, you have great taste.” “Your bike is awesome. That brand is supposed to be really good.” Introduce yourself in a simple, friendly way once you’ve broken the ice. “I’m Owen, by the way.” “I’m Alexander. It’s great to meet you.”