wikiHow Examples to Text Your Ex After No Contact If you haven't been in contact with your ex for a while and want to reach out to them, it's important to consider why you're doing so and what you hope to achieve. * "Hey, it's been a while. How have you been?" * "I was thinking about you today and wanted to say hi." * "I hope you're doing well. I've been thinking about you lately." * "I wanted to apologize for how things ended between us. I hope we can talk and make amends." * "I saw something today that reminded me of you. How have you been?" * "I miss talking to you. Can we catch up sometime?" * "I've been working on myself and wanted to check in with you. How have you been?" * "I just wanted to say that I'm grateful for the time we spent together and wish you all the best." * "I've been thinking about our relationship lately and wanted to talk about what went wrong." * "I hope you're happy and doing well. I wanted to reach out and say hi." * "I've been doing some soul-searching and realized I still have feelings for you. Can we talk about it?" * "I just wanted to say that I forgive you for what happened between us." * "I've been thinking about our memories together and wanted to share one with you." * "I hope you've found peace since we last talked. Can we catch up sometime soon?" * "I wanted to reach out and say that I'm sorry for my part in our breakup." * "I've been thinking about the lessons we learned from our relationship and wanted to share mine with you." * "I just wanted to say that I appreciate the time we spent together and wanted to check in." * "I've been thinking about how much we've both grown since we last talked. How have you been?" * "I hope you've been taking care of yourself. Can we talk and catch up?" * "I just wanted to say that I'm proud of you for all that you've accomplished. How have you been?" Page