Spend quality time with her Make an effort to do things together to show her that she’s a priority. * Watch a movie * Go for a walk * Take a class together * Cook together * Build something together * Take a day trip Give her compliments Show her how much you admire her qualities. “You have such a great laugh, that’s one of the first things that drew me to you.” “I love how brilliant you are.” “You look so beautiful when you wake up in the morning.” Give her presents Surprise her with little gifts every so often to show your appreciation. * Plants or flowers * Love notes * A scrapbook of photos and memories * Candles and aromatherapy items * Slippers and comfort items * Gift certificates to a spa * That book she’s been wanting to read * A playlist of her favorite music Check in with her Call or text her to see how her day is going to show her that you care. “Hey, how did your presentation go?” “Did you hear back about that interview?” Do things for her Handling her pesky chores will make her life a little easier and show her that you care. * Laundry * Cleaning * Cooking (e.g., a romantic dinner, her lunch to take to work, breakfast in bed) * Draw her a bubble bath * Home repair projects * Groom her pet Show her affection Physical gestures show that you like being close to her. * Hold her hand * Hug her * Playfully nudge her * Groom her * Kiss her * Cuddle with her * Give her a massage Tell her directly Whether you say it out loud, in a written note, or via text, tell her that you appreciate her. “I feel so lucky to have you in my life.” “I appreciate who you are and all you do.” “I love all the little ways you make me smile.”