如何用眼神引诱别人

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共同创作者是 Alysha Jeney, MA, LMFT

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如果你想引诱一个人，眼神是有力的工具。你可以通过几种方法用眼神施展魅力，让对方为你着迷。先进行初次眼神接触，然后充分利用你的眼神勾引对方。

方法 1
方法 1 的 3:

进行初次眼神接触

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    如果你想引诱一个人，不要害羞，主动跟对方进行初次目光接触。这样会显得你很自信，很多人都觉得自信的人很有魅力。
    • 人们感兴趣的对象往往是同时对自己也抱有好感的人。如果坐在房间另一头的那个人看你的时候，你能回应他的目光，就会激起他的兴趣。与其等着被别人注意，不如主动进行眼神交流。 [1]
    • 观察有没有线索表明那个人对你感兴趣，以此为契机主动与对方进行眼神交流。所谓的线索可能是一些微小的细节，比如那个人朝你的方向瞥了一眼。有时候女性用手撩拨头发也是有好感的表现。 [2]
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    如果你比较害羞，刚开始时可以迅速看那个人几眼。你看他第二眼，就说明你对他有兴趣。不妨这样做：迅速看一眼，移开目光，然后再看一眼。这样对方就会知道你对他感兴趣，希望引起他的注意。 [3]
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    除了直接与对方进行眼神交流外，还有一招也很管用，那就是用眼角余光注视他。如果暂时没有聊天的机会，不妨用眼角余光注视他几分钟。
    • 用眼角余光注视你爱慕的对象5到10分钟。自然一点，不要表现得太明显。观察一下那个人是不是也在看你。 [4]
    • 听到某个朋友说起有趣的事，你可以一边开怀大笑，一边偷瞄那个人。笑容是有感染力的，你想引诱的那个人很可能会被你的笑容吸引。 [5]
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    用你的眼睛和嘴传递出一个温暖的笑容。当那个人与你四目相交时，给他一个微笑。真诚的笑容可以让对方知道你很友善，可以接近。保持目光交流片刻，然后展露一个微笑。 [6]
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    除了眼神之外，还可以用肢体语言展现自信。自信的眼神加上自信的身姿，会让你的吸引力加倍。身体尽量放松，保持在舒适状态。不要紧绷肌肉。身体站直，肩膀打开。 [7]
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方法 2
方法 2 的 3:

用眼神鼓励对方靠近你

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    你朝他微笑后，等他作出反应。等他也朝你笑了一下，就可以给他一个魅惑的眼神。用眼神来表达你对他有“性趣”。
    • 嫣然一笑，同时上下打量对方。这表示你在打量对方的体形，衡量你对他有多少吸引力。 [8]
    • 打量完，你可以看着他的眼睛再次微笑，表示你对他很满意。 [9]
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    完成初步的眼神交流后，继续跟朋友们聊天。保持微笑，偶尔开怀大笑，积极参与对话。但要不时把目光转向你要引诱的那个人。 [10]
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    就算你已经得到了跟他聊天的机会，也要继续保持眼神交流，这很重要。在整个对话过程中，要经常与他眼神接触，用余光看他，上下打量他。始终用眼神与他调情，让他知道你对他有“性趣”。 [11]
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方法 3
方法 3 的 3:

在对话过程中保持眼神交流

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    尽管眼神交流是吸引异性的重要手段，太过热情也可能让人吃不消。不要在眼神交流上做得太过火。
    • 对话开启后，在对方说话时，你可以偶尔把目光移开。但是不要看手机或者看别人，这样不礼貌。稍微把目光移向左边或右边，避免过度的眼神交流。 [12]
    • 在与对方交谈时，你应该尽量做到用四分之三的时间直视对方的脸庞。每次注视维持一到七秒。这会让对方知道你对他真的有兴趣，这样的你也很有魅力。但是眼神交流不要过度，以免给对方造成压力。 [13]
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    秀眉微扬的神态很有诱惑力，表示你有兴趣并认可这个人。你可以在开始跟对方聊天时，微微扬起眉毛。这样会增加成功几率。 [14]
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    你注视对方的方式会影响成功几率。跟他聊天时，视线尽量和他保持水平，这比斜瞄他效果要好。用余光注视的招数主要用于初次眼神交流，但是在对话过程中，比起斜眼偷瞄，人们往往对直接适当的眼神交流感受更好。 [15]
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    有时你可以上下打量你爱慕的对象，表示你对他有兴趣。
    • 观察一下那个人怎么看你，你就可以判断出他对你是否有兴趣。如果他的目光落在你的臀部和大腿上，他很有可能对你有兴趣。 [16]
    • 如果你对一个人有兴趣，还可以在他说话时看他的头和肩膀，表达你对他的兴趣。这招对引诱别人也很有用。 [17]
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  7. ↑ http://advice.uk.match.com/dating-advice/general-dating-advice/how-seduce-someone-using-your-eyes?s=1&utm_expid=55691082-22.rLrIPxbBQb6TKliqL3HxKA.1
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