Hey there everyone!! So this discussion is for the people that have been bullied.(which is pretty much everyone lets admit. ;D) So if your being bullied and need help or if you have some advice. Post here. Remember, you’re NEVER alone. Even though you might not think it. <3 Gracelinhappy.
Here are some flat out things to tell bullies: #1
. Ok, so let me tell you two things straight off. 1. I don’t care what you have to say. 2. Being mean won’t get you anywhere in life. I’m sorry it’s the truth. Your mean. Sure, it might get you through the popular ladder in middle and high school, but people will look at you as plain, old mean. ("You’re weird) yep, I know I am, but guess what. I can change that! You can never change being mean. (You’re mean.) I know I’m being mean. I’m sorry, I hate to be the one to break the news. So I don’t care! I don’t give a fig! Call me whatever! It won’t have an impact on me!! #2
(If they call you a female dog) Hmmm, let me think, bitch is a female dog, dogs bark, bark grows on trees, trees grow into nature, nature is beautiful. Thanks for the compliment!
@WarriorofEden
Yes, but here we can help people that need help with bullies. I know from personal experience that people can be REALLY scared to speak up first. If they already see there is a thread about bullys, they might speak out for some help. I don’t know about you, but I thought this was kinda a good thread. :…( I hope you’re doing ok. Those bullies are SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO mean.
Aaaw Taylor, that’s horrible! I hope those bullies have realised what pain they inflicted upon you now.
I’ve been bullied a lot, for various reasons. I try to stay positive but it really does bring me down. I try to help other who get bullied, but I either get a positive response or get bullied in turn. To some, bullying may seem like a few words, a punch or a small taunt, but it really does not only physically, but mentally scar a person- I know from experience. Life ain’t always what it seems, sadly…
Yup. I actually wrote a little booklet about bullying when I was 13, I found it today. xD It does have pretty good advice in it, to be honest.
Really? Now that isn’t even bullying; that’s way across the line. That is just not right. Do you have anyone you can trust?
I admit I’m not sure how to help you; you’re in a really tough situation. I can tell that what you need is a really good friend you can console in and just tell everything, and who will not judge you at all (I have a friend like that and believe me; they’re lifesavers). The problem is obviously in *getting* one. So, there are people your age in the vicinity, but they are overly prejudice and judgemental. They’ve already made up their minds and I doubt it would be worth it to try to change them, so they’re out. Unless you’re willing to settle for an online friend, I can’t think of any other possibilities. Unless you were to move, but I get the feeling that would be asking a bit much; I’ve moved enough in my life to know that much at least. You can still talk to online friends, but you don’t get the same sense of empathy and trust you would from someone IRL, and they can’t exactly come over and play video games. Still, that sounds like you’re best option at this point, but I’ll get back to you if I think of anything else.
@WarriorofEaden
. Wow!!! My heart goes out to u!!! :…( if there are new people moving to your town, target them.
I’m afraid, that many people want perfect friends without disorders, but you happen to be Autistic. There are some benefits from being Autistic, though, from what I’ve read. PEOPLE, PEOPLE AREN’T PERFECT, YA’ KNOW
Also, @TetheredAvian74
, I think Warrior has lots of online friends
I mean its safe but not safe you have to choose who you think is real and that’s taking a risk
+1
Also, if you meet someone that keeps spamming you, I think that you would not want them as a friend.
yea unless its funny spam
^ ?? you just contradicted yourself
Maybe she changed her mind?
