i am a thirteen year old girl currently in a happy relationship with a guy, i think i might be bi curious though im not sure how to tell because ive never dated a girl but i think if i do come out a bi curious that he will break things off with me and that all of my friends would not want to hang out with me (because all of them are girls) and a few of them are close minded please help, sincerely a confused teen

You might wanna move this to general chat.:slight_smile:

You don’t need to have dated someone of the same gender to know your sexuality. After all, straight people don’t need to have dated someone of another gender to know they’re straight.

As someone who’s gone through the whole sexuality-and-gender-questioning stuff, I’d recommend you take some time to let yourself figure it out before you feel like you should tell someone. In environments where you don’t know if you’ll be accepted, it’s a good idea to be sure about your sexuality (even if that just means “not straight but not sure”), since you can’t really backtrack after coming out. It takes some people years to figure out their identities. There’s no rush:slight_smile:

I agree with Galactic here, I am still figuring out my identity after years of complete confusing and chaos (plus mistreatment from the opposite sex). Yeah in my case, it’s complicated but hopefully you won’t have any major problems:slight_smile: