More than a year ago, I met this patient and faithful guy in a local church gathering. I wasn’t expecting that he’d become my best friend since I see it as so good to be true. Little did I know that I’ll fall in love with him as time goes by and that the feeling is actually mutual. Last Sunday, he confessed his feelings to me and I felt so unmoved. I just can’t explain it-- I believe I’m falling for him badly. I really wanted to give my “yes” to him but I’m quite afraid of one thing: that he’ll see me as “no way better” than his ex. Her ex broke up with him last 2016, ditched her with another guy and got married. I love him but I just don’t want to become a bandage for his wounded heart. Shall this prevent us from going into the next level or shall I strip my fear away? I badly need some advice.
system
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Ah sweet romance… without the cliches
I can help you there and it’s pretty simple
Take it nice and slowly, tell him how you feel in a calm, gentle way with a smile on your face. Make a vow to him and to yourself that you’ll never leave his side, that you’ll always be there for him no matter what and you’ll love him for who he is, obviously you already do but tell him anyway. This should assure him that there is nothing to worry about and make him feel more comfortable
Also don’t give up yourself as well, you must be brave and caring to him, if you really think he is the one then.
You have a lot more to gain from this, tell yourself to keep going further no matter what! It’s best if you keep to your vows so you’ll never go wrong… most of the time!
Keep this up and just maybe…*giggle*… you might get surprised ;)
@WarriorOfEden
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Great advice…So you’re a old romantic at heart…
I am not sure what that means… I’ve never had a really boyfriend myself surprisingly. I just learned a lot of stuff from Jeremy Kyle, books, movies and other’s people’s tales! Plus a little imagination doesn’t hurt
@WarriorOfEden
…I’m so sorry…typo*Romantic…Typing from my iPhone…Sorry…
system
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oh, still not sure what you mean
Great! Thank you so much! I care for him a lot and I know that we are meant to be together. I love him, but yeah, it’s his past that’s keeping me away to accept him as my boyfriend. I really appreciate this. I promise, I won’t leave his side!
what about other people out there
i mean we all need to date some one
@Cameron-Phillips
…What are you on about?
just saying its cool and all but im wondering about others expieriences
@Cameron-Phillips
…What other experiences?
