So im having problems with some junior guys that like to mess with me at my new school school heres the story: im in a free period, just me and Jeff in the conferance room at school for an hour while the rest of his grade is in pre-cal. he asks me what i think of Joe (who i kinda like) and inside i freak out but im cool and just say “why?” and he says “i asked you first.” and that goes back and forth for a minute and finally i say “i guess he’s kinda weird” and we talk about that for a few minutes but i feel kinda mean! so then i say “well, i mean i guess i can’t really say that i dont really know him that well so yeah…” then he starts to laugh and im like “what?” and he pulls out what i assume to be Joe’s phone and he said “i got it all on tape!” and of course i keep my cool and say “so” and i imediatly regret it. i felt so mean. after that i assumed that he was just kidding (we like to play jokes on each other). so i talk to my friend liz a week later and she tells me “joe thinks you hate him” and im like “HOLY S@#*!!!” and she said he showed her something on his phone and you really coulnt tell what it said. so now he like wont make eye contact with me and i feel horrible!!! i want to confront him but i dont know what to say. i mean does he like me? how much influece could a freshman girl have on a JUNIOR boy? not much. please help me!!!
excuse me for being a normal person with problems.
Linus
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@Evilbunnyrabbit
It’s often difficult for wikihow members to give advice on these kinds of issues because we don’t know you and don’t know the situation. It’s not that we don’t care; it just makes it difficult. I would encourage you to talk to your school guidance counselors about the situation. Not only are they better equipped but they can support you emotionally.
we dont have guidence counselers.
system
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Blurt it out. I have very little knowledge on relationships, but from what it sounds like you should just tell him the truth, and nothing but it. I know that’d be hard, but I can’t think of any other solutions…
its just kinda hard i kinda like-like him and i just get really really nervous. i said on the recording he was weird (which doesnt mean i dont like him) so he thinks he has proof of me hating him, BUT ITS NOT TRUE!!! i really wont to confront him but how can i do that?
system
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Just do it! I sort of have to agree with everyone on this page, considering none of us really know you. Check on wikiHow- I’m almost positive there’s an article on this sort of thing!
Don’t hang out with Juniors. And don’t an hero. thereifixedit
they’re my friends it is a small school and we all kinda mingle togather.
what do you mean by phyched you out?
go and tell joe “hey im sorry bout the tape, i dont hate you! i just didnt know what to say cuz it sounded like jeff was up to something pretty fishy (or whatever other word you can think of fishy was just my example) so i got freaked out! can we start over or be friends or something?” and then smile super cutely!! and that day wear ur hair super hot/cute/beautiful/adorable! (:
that sounds a ton better that some other suggestions thanks!
oh… why does that bother ya?
system
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well ur Jeff friend sounds kinda mean… im a jr in highschool but im a girl, just wait it out and see what the guy does and then go from there. Plus its not so bad to be weird.
system
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you dont have guidance counselors!!! HOW DO U SURVIVE! well not that i even have ever really met with mine but yea. lol
yeah we have “advisors” but they do nothing than get made at ya for bad grades. no social help…
Just for the record I’m a junior boy who talks to a lot of the freshmen at my school so this psyched me out a bit when I read it.
Psych out- (verb)- To unnerve
