So let’s clear my relationship plate. All boyfriends, ex. Gone. Yep. Just was not right. Like I said before, I am one of those girls that sadly gets a lot of attention from boys. So it was not long before I was swarmed apon. So let’s say, I might have… (Cough cough.) uh, tried to make this one boy like me. Then, I thought he didn’t like me anymore. Show no interest. I was heartbroken. But I got over it. But the stupid human nature of teenagers clicked in and I felt a need for some love. So I found this other boy. So cute. I made* him like me. Then, it turns out that I was stupid and the other DOES like me and was upset that I started paying attention to this other guy. Umm… This is weird, but we never really had a I LIKE YOU talk. Therefore never had a do you still like me talk. What do do? *When I say made, I don’t mean it literally. I mean, I subdued him into liking me. PS This might sound like a cheesy teenage girl problem. PPS Sorry.
ok this has happened to me so I know exactly what to do!
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ask yourself which one YOU like!
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talk to BOTH of them seperatly not together it will end terribly…trust me.
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follow your heart which one do u feel a spark with. if u feel it with both…which one do u have a stronger hold on.( like what one do u think ud like to hang out with more.)
I hope this helps.
I get how you feel, I’m the type of girl that boys get attracted to as well. It’s really annoying and I’ve been through it all, so I’ll help you. Think about it carefully- who do you have true feelings for? This is really hard, but think about it thoroughly. After, have a chat with both boys calmly and tell them how you feel, and ask them how they feel about you. If they both like you, you’ll have to either pick one of them or let go, love is ruthless. You’ll do it though, you’re awesome, and you’ll get through it soon enough (-:.
THANKS So MUCH You Guys!!!
Ok, so you guys have helped so much, but now, my friend needs help. This friend is going through a depressing time for her, and I really wanna help. So here it is: My friend had a crush on this guy. She thought. (Actually it was almost for certain.) that he liked her. So she slipped him this note. Well, he didn’t say anything back for like ever. Then she started getting teased. But that ended quickly. Now he is just stalking her. Kinda. Like never says anything to her, but like where she is, he is. Is that anything to do with anything? Thanks. And my friend thanks you too.
In your own situation: It slightly depends upon how you came to know that the first guy likes you(since you didnt know it before). I may say, you may go for the one whom you like and who reciprocates. you stand a fair chance to be happy with him and have him feel happy too.
Your friend may have liked a stalker mind it seems apparent. Let your friend find how what kind of a guy he is in general. If he stalks others too. If yes, then your friend can just have a word with him that what she did was silly and that she is sorry.
But if the guy is nice, and your friend still likes him, then, she can approach him and know each other better.
But, being with a safe guy is the main issue here. As she doesnt want someone stalking her in the long run.
Oh, and it’s not like EVERYWHERE stalker. Like school, first 15 minutes of lunch and goes off with friends. So yeah.
So we are going to see if he asks her anything. He seems kinda nervous because her friends are always around.
He will figure a way to contact her I feelThats kind of what happens usually. All the best to your friendHope they get along well.
I would like to share and ask why people think I am a guy. My name is the only thing that of guys.
Do I sound boyish?
SarahB
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I know you are a girl Vish!
@SarahB
Thanks so muchI appreciate that.
But a lot of people think I might be a guy.
When I receive a call, they call me ‘Sir’
My voice is quite feminine. So I just wonder…
A guy friend of mine did say once, “Viz, you sound like you are not ready to be a girl”.
I have no complains about this misunderstand. But just curious why I seem more like a guy.
No, your attitude is so girl.
Thanks Grace :). My friend said that because I was telling him why I find it kind of silly when guys randomly look at girls and think of girls as being so special and desirable etc etc. He was right most of the times though. I appreciate his honesty. My bestieBut this was also 3,4years ago. I dont judge guys any longer like before.
