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How do you stay true to yourself and your values?

Katie Styzek
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Katie Styzek is a Professional School Counselor for Chicago Public Schools. Katie earned a BS in Elementary Education with a Concentration in Mathematics from the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign. She served as a middle school mathematics, science, and social studies teacher for three years prior to becoming a counselor. She holds a Master of Education (M.Ed.) in School Counseling from DePaul University and an MA in Educational Leadership from Northeastern Illinois University. Katie holds an Illinois School Counselor Endorsement License (Type 73 Service Personnel), an Illinois Principal License (formerly Type 75), and an Illinois Elementary Education Teaching License (Type 03, K – 9). She is also Nationally Board Certified in School Counseling from the National Board for Professional Teaching Standards.

Katie Styzek

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Don't give into any peer pressure. Instead, have confidence in your own strengths, abilities, and successes. Then, exit the uncomfortable situation by saying "no thanks" and walking away.

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How do you keep a conversation going with a new student?

Katie Styzek
School Counselor
Katie Styzek is a Professional School Counselor for Chicago Public Schools. Katie earned a BS in Elementary Education with a Concentration in Mathematics from the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign. She served as a middle school mathematics, science, and social studies teacher for three years prior to becoming a counselor. She holds a Master of Education (M.Ed.) in School Counseling from DePaul University and an MA in Educational Leadership from Northeastern Illinois University. Katie holds an Illinois School Counselor Endorsement License (Type 73 Service Personnel), an Illinois Principal License (formerly Type 75), and an Illinois Elementary Education Teaching License (Type 03, K – 9). She is also Nationally Board Certified in School Counseling from the National Board for Professional Teaching Standards.

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Ask them about where they moved from and how things are going at their new school. If you hit things off, invite them to eat lunch with you later.

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Why do people think they need to be popular?

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Humans always form social hierarchies. Many people feel the need to climb through the ranks to get more attention or status. There's nothing wrong with this as long as you don't do this by tearing others down. Instead, be the person that others can go to for advice, protection, and motivation.

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Why does a girl who follows me on social media and interacts with my content ignore me at school?

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Some people feel more comfortable interacting online than face-to-face. If you want to get to know her better, try making the first move and approaching her in person.

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