Q&A for How to Choose a Religion

Dive into researching different religions and read different religious texts. While reading them, understand that there are varying interpretations and some passages need proper context to understand them rather than just a surface-level examination. Throughout this time, pray or meditate, and ask for peace. It's fine to not know where you stand. Take it slow, and you will find something that matches your internal beliefs.

Start by researching the beliefs of Catholicism and Christianity (some argue that Catholicism is Christianity, but this is also up to you to decide. If, for example, your other parent is Protestant, look into the beliefs of that branch. See which matches your own personal beliefs more closely. Look into how the two religions interpret the Bible differently and consider what seems most right to you. In the end, it's your choice.

Do you believe that the Messiah has come in Jesus? If yes, then Christianity is the one for you. If you believe He has not come yet, then pick Judaism.

There are probably spiritual communities in your region you can meet up with. There are also non-god-style religions like Jainism, Buddhism, Taoism, certain descriptions of Hinduism, and New Age.

Go with the ones with beliefs that line up with your own. There are many different practices in a religion and you can find a way to practice it in a way you like. If your core beliefs don't line up with a religion, you will just feel stuck or miserable with it.

If you feel like your parents might not like your change to Islam, then wait until you turn 18 or you are not under your parents’ roof anymore.

Ask yourself questions about beliefs from Buddhism and Islam. For example, do you believe in reincarnation? Do you believe in the four noble truths? Do you believe in the benefits of meditation? Do you believe that Nirvana is achievable through the path of enlightenment? If the answer to any of these is yes, Buddhism may be the path for you. If not, do you believe that the five pillars of Islam are the path to heaven? Do you believe that there is only one true God, and Muhammad is his prophet? If so, Islam may be for you.

Since you were raised in a particular faith, you might not have had the chance to explore your true beliefs. Each person has their own unique set of beliefs and values shaped by their experiences, which may align with specific religions. First, identify what those beliefs are and then see which religion aligns with them, if you feel the need to choose one.

Denominational differences often focus on specifics, as they come from the same religion. Ultimately, choose what resonates with you, but both are valid paths.

In all religions, there are both pro-LGBT and anti-LGBT stances, so blanket statements aren’t accurate. It may help to read how people from both religions approach LGBT issues, particularly from LGBT members. Often, certain branches are more accepting than others, so researching specific branches can be helpful. There are many resources on LGBT theology from different religions, so you are not alone.

If your father is not deeply religious, it might not be a significant issue. However, if he is more involved, it's important to have a calm discussion with him. Explain your choice, answer any questions, and remind him that religion is a personal decision.

Wicca may be the path for you. In Wicca, you are free to be LGBTQ+. It also incorporates elements of witchcraft and magic that you've described. You can read more about it to see if it resonates with you.

Science and religion are often seen as opposites, but it's possible to believe in both depending on your scientific beliefs. If you believe in evolution and not intelligent design, religion might not suit you. You can choose to be atheist, agnostic, or have no label, depending on your beliefs. Consider whether you believe in a higher power or god(s).

The "Holy Spirit" feeling might be linked to Christianity's teachings. If it's a general sense of God, remember that both Islam and Christianity believe in the God of Abraham. Consider why Islam draws you and whether your feelings are tied to either religion or general spirituality.