Ebony Eubanks, MSW, ACSW, CAMS-II
Therapist
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Co-authored Articles (21)
How to
Know if Someone Is Lying in a Text
You've texted your partner, best friend, or a new person you're just getting to know, and you get a feeling like something just isn't right. Is this person lying to you? If so, how can you tell if someone is lying over t...
How to Move On From the Ex Who You Lost Your Virginity To
Healing and growing after this significant relationship A breakup with anyone can be very difficult. For young people, emotions can feel particularly intense and difficult to control, so a breakup can make it feel like y...
How to
Keep a Secret
Being entrusted with a secret can be both a delight and a burden. You should be honored that someone trusts you enough to tell you a secret, but be aware that if you betray that trust, you could damage your relationship...
How to
Recover when Your Girlfriend Gets Married to Another Guy
A woman you've been romantically involved with has tied the knot with someone else. Depending on the type of relationship you had together, this may have come as quite a surprise. You will likely experience a wide range ...
10 Reasons People Love Cigars: Flavor, Relaxation, & More
The scientific and social motivations for smoking stogies Over 8.5 million Americans smoke cigars each month…but what makes the pastime of lighting up a stogie so appealing? Is it the smell, the taste, or something el...
How to
Deal with an Overly Friendly Neighbor
Dealing with an overly friendly neighbor can be annoying and awkward. You might feel the urge to spare their feelings and put up with it, but there are steps you can take to address the issue. With any luck, they’ll ta...
A Guide to Ending a Short Term Relationship
Make moving on from a new relationship as painless as possibleEnding a short term relationship can hurt just as much (if not more) than a long term relationship, even if they only last for a matter of weeks or months. If...
Have You Outgrown Your Friends? How to Know and What to Do
As you mature and enter new stages of life, you may grow away from even your closest friends. While it is normal for friendships to change, the feeling of drifting from a best friend is understandably uneasy, especially ...
How to
Surprise a Friend
Show your appreciation for that special friend who's always been there for you. Set aside what ''you'' would enjoy, and think of what would make the perfect gift or perfect day for your friend.
How to
Choose a Gift for Your Friends
Giving gifts is a great way to show your friends that you care, but sometimes it can be difficult to find the perfect present. Luckily, with some pointers and intuition, you’ll be able to pick out the perfect gift for ...
How to
Select a Gift for Your Best Male Friend
Guy friends can be great fun, but when a birthday or another gift-giving event rolls around, things can get stressful. Odds are that you want something that will show him you care about him, but you're worried about givi...
How to
Get Your Friend to Stop Copying You
Imitation can sometimes be flattering, but when a friend copies you, it can be very annoying. Perhaps you have a friend who buys the same clothes as you, got the same hairstyle, or even tells your jokes and passes them o...
How to
Behave When You Like Your Best Friend's Boyfriend
Having a crush on your best friend’s boyfriend is hard, but there are ways handle the situation. Before you do anything else, it is important to make sure that you are behaving appropriately. You can also benefit from ...
How to
Spot a Liar by Their Eye Movements
Spotting a liar can be very difficult. If you suspect that someone might not be being honest with you, here are some ways you can gain more clues.
How to
Stop Being a Drama Queen
If multiple people have called you a drama queen and you always find yourself getting upset, emotional, or frustrated by the people around you, then it may be time for an attitude adjustment. Though you may think that be...
How to
Be Free
Do you want to be free and become the truest, most authentic version of yourself? If so, there are steps you can take starting today that will help you live the life you want, the way you want to live it. Keep reading fo...
How to
Be Friends With Someone Who Talks Too Much
If you have a chatty friend, you may notice yourself making statements like “Yea, but what I was trying to say earlier was…” quite often. This person may totally dominate your conversations and make it impossible t...
How to
Make Friends With a Boy (Girls)
As a girl, becoming friends with a boy may seem daunting, but it’s easier than it seems. You can take small steps to get to know a boy and establish a solid friendship that stands the test of time. Start by becoming ac...
How to
Move on from Someone Who Doesn't Like You
You've loved someone for quite some time now, only to be rejected. Whether they said it or not, it still hurts. You're tired of being rejected and you love this person so much, you don't see how you could ever move on. B...
What Does “Actions Are Louder than Words” Mean?
The definition, uses, and history of this fascinating English idiom The English language is full of idioms (sayings that have a figurative meaning), and “actions are louder than words” is one of the most common and ...