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Lauren Sanders

Matchmaker & Dating Coach

Lauren Sanders is a Professional Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Founder of Dating for the Soul. With over four years of experience, she specializes in helping singles find love. Lauren is also the author of Lipstick Faith: A Collection of Inspirational Writings and Life Lessons, You Deserve the World, Rainbows and Strawberries: 100 Devotions for the Brighter Side of Life, and Let's Go Outside Mommy. Lauren holds BS from Dillard University and a Masters from The University of North Georgia.

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Signs that someone is hiding their feelings for you?
Well hello there! Even though your love interest is shy…actions never lie. So be sure to observe his actions. How does he act around you? Does he initiate conversations? Does he initiate asking questions during conversations? How does he look at you? Does he show any interest in your day? Pay attention to the way he treats you, and that will reveal how he feels about you. In fact, many men aren’t as expressive as women are. Therefore, observation is essential. Though he may be shy, there are still plenty of signs that will be able to assist you in determining if he likes you.
Be real with me. Do opposites actually attract?
Opposites can attract each other, however, in those situations where opposites do attract, both individuals have to have an open mind. Individuals that are “stuck” in their ways and prefer not to veer far from their preferences would not do well with an opposites attract situation. However, individuals that are open to new experiences and learning from others…they typically do better with dating someone extremely different from themselves. Just be aware that the person you’re dating views the world from a different lens. We all have a different lens. Be mindful of their perspective and respect it. Don’t be judgmental. Be open and ready to go with the flow.
How do you actually get a girlfriend? I have no idea
I think the best way to go about looking for a girlfriend is to be proactive. Place yourself in situations to meet more people. For instance, social gatherings are a wonderful way to meet new and different people. The more exposure the better. Likewise, exposing yourself via dating apps and social media is a good idea. Introverts typically do better with dating sites versus meeting in person. However, be careful not to be too desperate in your search for a girlfriend. Just think of it as a new opportunity to meet new people. And if you meet your girlfriend…it will be a plus!
Should you block your ex on social media?
It’s only necessary to block your ex on social media if remaining connected with him or her online interferes with your growth and healing process. If you’re constantly stalking their page by visiting it on a daily basis, scouring the comment section and his or her newly added friend list, it may be a good idea to at least unfriend him or her. However, if it doesn’t interfere with anything at all, it’s perfectly fine to stay friends with your ex on social media.
What are some fun/spicy questions to ask a girl?
Upon meeting a new person, good questions to ask them include:
- Asking them about their life goals and values.
- Asking them about their upbringing with their family.
- Asking them about their most recent committed relationship.
- Asking them about their current career and plans to further it.
- Asking them how they feel about you (their first impression).
- Asking them about the first time they fell in love.
- Asking them why things didn’t work out with their first love.
- Asking them their favorite subject to learn in high school and/or college.
- Asking them about their last break up, and why it didn’t work out.
- Asking them about their favorite place to travel and why.
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