Sixu Chen

Life, Career, and Relationship Coach

Sixu Chen is a career and relationship coach, as well as an accomplished interior designer, based in Bellevue, Washington. She is the founder of SCcoaching Group, launched in 2020, and is a certified coach through the Life Purpose Institute. Sixu specializes in guiding young professionals and multi-talented individuals through transformative self-discovery journeys to design fulfilling career paths. She is the creator of the CONFIDENT Career Creation program, specifically designed to help creative minds find clarity, confidence, and direction in their professional lives. In her relationship coaching, Sixu focuses on strengthening communication skills to build deeper, more meaningful connections. She also fosters a community of growth-minded professionals by hosting Coach Connect, a weekly networking event on zoom that brings coaches together to collaborate, share, and support each other. Alongside her coaching work, Sixu partners with Beth Bloom Designs as an independent contractor.

Education

  • BA, Interior Design, California College of the Arts

Certifications & Organizations

  • Certified Life Coach and Certified Relationship Coach, Life Purpose Institute
  • Top 20 Coaches Nomination, Coach Foundation, 2021

Favorite Piece of Advice

You are the designer of your life. We all have the creativity and strength to shape our paths, even when it feels uncertain. I remind my clients that they have more power and choice than they realize—once they start seeing themselves as the creator of their life, not just the passenger, everything begins to change.

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Forum Comments (9)

How do you prevent a relationship from becoming stagnant?
Come up with fun things to do with your partner to prevent your relationship from becoming stagnant. If there’s no growth happening, one person needs to focus on personal development or the areas of their life that could be better. I also recommend taking attention away from your relationship and trying to improve yourself.
How do you gain trust back in a relationship after lying?
To gain trust back in a relationship after lying, give your partner a sincere apology. Own up to your mistake and tell them that you won’t do it again. If the love is there, your partner should be willing to rebuild that trust with you. Give it time, and learn from your mistakes.
My boyfriend is always moody
That sounds exhausting if you're constantly walking on eggshells. Does your boyfriend's moodiness affect you in a certain way? If it does, I’d encourage you to take care of yourself . You cannot change your boyfriend or tell him to stop being a certain way. You just have to ask yourself this question: “Will I accept this? Do I want to change this, or can I just leave it?” Because essentially with any situation, there's only three options: accept it, change it, or leave it . Which one are you willing to do?
What do I do if I have fallen back in love with my ex?
You can fall back in love with a person or never get over somebody, and there's nothing wrong with it. Friendship can change back to relationship . That happened in my personal life. I was dating somebody, and it didn't work out, but we kept talking, and after you talk, talk, talk, you realize that you guys just want to get back together.

I would say don't judge yourself for that feeling . If something didn't work out before and you broke up, but your feelings are still there, embrace that feeling and see if there is any potential to get back together. If not, then let go. Otherwise, it's just pain. If you and your ex have no potentiality to have a future relationship, I would say stop being friends for a little bit until you don't have any feeling or any desire anymore, because a lot of time you just have that kind of one-sided intention of, “Oh, let's see if the other person is going to be interested in me again,” but it turns out they already shut that door. Then you end up with a second-time heartbreak.
What can a man do to be more romantic?
Romance is different for different people. This is a key. You need to speak the other person's love language. First of all, find out what their love language is, what makes them feel loved. Some people think they just copy the movies and create a big scene with candles, hearts, and flowers. That could appear romantic on screen, but in real life, it could be very overwhelming to somebody.

What I would say is, if you do anything that speaks to your partner's love language to show that they're appreciated, they're loved, that's romantic . One of the things that's romantic to me is my partner suddenly showing up at my door with food, with flowers, or even just a hug, just to surprise me. I think that's super romantic, but on the other hand, if I do that to him, he may feel offended.
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