How to Encourage Your Cat to Go to Sleep

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Most cats will sleep up to 16 hours a day and, contrary to popular belief, are not nocturnal. They are actually crepuscular which means they are most active at dawn and dusk. Unfortunately, if you're a pet owner, you're most likely asleep at dawn or getting ready for bed at dusk. Luckily, it's not impossible to change your cat's sleeping schedule. Since most cats thrive when a routine is established and maintained, creating a good bedtime routine can help encourage your little furry feline friend to go to sleep at the same time as you.

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Playing with Your Cat

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  1. A cat's natural instincts are to hunt, catch, kill, and eat their prey. This is followed by grooming and then a period of rest. Recreating this scenario by playing with your cat can regulate their energy levels to meet yours. Use interactive toys like wand toys or hiding toys to hunt to tire your cat out. [1] Be sure to create a play environment that gives your cat room to run, climb, and jump.
  2. Bored cats can be restless, exhibit inappropriate behaviours, and become aggressive. Exercise or play will help solve some unwanted behaviours, such as not allowing you to sleep at night by being aggressive, meowing throughout the night, or causing a ruckus around the house. You want to keep your cat busy and active during the day so that they don't accumulate pent up energy. There are several ways to do this:
    • Play hard then rest, and play hard again. Cats are built for short spurts of energy and a good play session consists of several highs and lows. Play into this by tiring out your cat for a few minutes, letting it rest, and then restarting play again and repeat. The time it takes for your cat to tire itself out will decrease the longer you play.
    • Act as prey. Playing is more than just waving a toy in your cat's face. This can be more annoying than fun for your cat. Mimic a prey's movements by moving the toy away from your cat, darting behind objects to hide, or jumping away from your cat.
    • Kittens are much more active than adult cats. It may take an hour or longer to tire them out.
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  3. Some cat owners might be working all day or don't have enough time to play with their cats. A good way to incorporate play and encourage activity throughout the day is to provide your cat with things to do and see at home without you. You can try:
  4. Another way to keep your cat busy and also encourage good behaviour is to train your cat. Cats usually repeat an action if it produces a positive consequence or a reward at the end. This is different from training an animal what not to do, which relies on giving an animal negative consequences for negative behaviours. Cats don't do well with negative consequences or punishments which can encourage more aggressive or unwanted behaviours. [6] Try:
    • Clicker training. Using a small plastic device with a metal strip that makes a loud clicking noise when pressed, you can condition your cat to associate the sound with a positive reward. Every time your cat does something you want, be sure to "click" immediately upon performing the action and then give it a treat or their favourite food. There are many ways to clicker train. One way is to start clicker training by giving your cat a treat right at the moment you click. In the end, your cat will understand that a "click" means a "treat".
    • Leash training. If your cat is an indoor cat, consider taking your cat outside for a walk or just to explore. This is a safer way for indoor kitties to explore the wild. Start by purchasing a harness for cats or a small harness for dogs, and a leash. Never use collared leashes as this can restrict a cat's airway or hurt their neck. Collared leashes also provide you with less control over your cat, especially if they scare easily and bolt off. Put the harness on your cat indoors first to let it get used to the feel of it. This may take a few days or weeks until your cat can walk properly with a harness on. You can train it to follow you indoors with clicker training or just follow it around with their leash on. Eventually, you can introduce it to the outside world. [7]
    • With any training, it is important to be patient and to understand your cat's personality. Some cats do very well with training, some cats may take weeks to months before they can be trained, and some have personalities that don't do well with training. For example, a fearful cat would not do well with leash training and wearing a harness or going outside.
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Scheduling Meals

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  1. If you are leaving food out for your cat to eat and graze on, it might be time to consider scheduling feeding times instead. When your cat has access to food whenever they want, they will be in a constant state of digestion and that can make it difficult for you to predict your cat's energy levels and have it match yours.
    • Having scheduled meal times is very beneficial to your cat's health. It can manage weight and obesity issues and inform you of any health problems that may arise. A change in eating habits could go unnoticed when you're free feeding and that could mean missing symptoms of illnesses.
  2. It is important you do this process slowly and consistently. Going cold turkey could upset your cat and cause health or behavioural problems. You will notice a difference in your cat's energy and behaviour within a few weeks of serving scheduled meal times. There are several ways to transition your cat from free feeding to scheduled meal times:
    • Put away food for short periods of time. You can start by putting your cat's food bowl away when you leave for work or when you're out on an errand. Then put it back down when you return. Put the food away for longer periods of time as the days go by until they match the feeding schedule that's right for you and your cat.
    • Decrease the amount of free-food available every day until there is no more. At the same time, serve the remaining amount to your cat as meals.
    • Feed wet food meals. Wet food tends to be eaten right away and is easier fed as a meal. As well, wet food provides moisture and has a higher protein content than some dry foods. Consult your veterinarian or pet diet specialist to find the best type of food for your cat.
    • If you have a busy schedule, consider purchasing an automatic feeder. You can schedule this device to serve meals to your cat when you're not there. There are automatic feeders that serve dry food and wet food.
  3. It is recommended that you feed your cat 4 times a day and schedule meals with no longer than 4-5 hours between each one. [8] The goal is to feed small measured portions of food that is eaten within 30 minutes. After each meal, your cat will typically groom itself, then rest. Try to schedule your cat's last meal so that their rest period coincides with yours. This will take some observation and a few days or weeks to establish a new feeding schedule.
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Going to Bed

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  1. Cats are known for their love of routine. By having a routine that ends with you sleeping, your cat will eventually be able to understand the signs of bedtime. Be sure to do the same activities in the same order every night; brush your teeth, change your clothes, make the bed, and turn off the lights.
    • Even if your cat isn't watching you, sounds of your bedtime routine will travel throughout the home.
  2. Set aside certain fun activities that your cat enjoys that only happen before bedtime. You can:
    • Groom your cat.
    • Cuddle in bed.
    • Brush your cat's teeth.
    • Feed special treats.
    • Lead your cat to their sleeping area.
  3. The first few days or weeks may be difficult for both you and your cat, especially if you have a restless or aggressive cat. Your cat might come up to you for pets or whine at you for hours. And then you may be tempted to get up and tend to your cat. By doing this, you are giving it the attention that encourages unwanted behaviour from your cat, even if you're giving it positive attention. By ignoring your cat night after night, you are telling your cat that no matter what they do, nothing will happen. Their unwanted behaviour should eventually stop.
    • Avoid getting up to get a drink of water or to use the washroom. Plan ahead as much as possible until your cat establishes the routine of going to sleep.
    • Consider leaving your cat outside of the bedroom. In some cases, your cat may be too difficult to ignore while they are in the room. Do not give in and open the door for it or talk to it from inside the room.
  4. Establishing a bedtime routine with your cat may take a few weeks and you may need to make a few sacrifices. With any behavioural training, time and patience is always the key.
    • Even though you are trying to change your cat, you will also have to change. Sometimes pet training is more about compromise than about the success of learning a new behaviour. Remember, your cat is also a living thing with feelings, thoughts, preferences, and a unique personality.
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    Cats feel less stressed when they follow the natural rhythm of hunt, catch, kill, eat, groom, and sleep. Help your cat follow this rhythm by playing with a wand toy right before meal time—this mimics the "hunt" aspect of this cycle.
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    If not fed small meals frequently, a cat will be restless due to hunger. For instance, only feeding your cat at 7 am and 7 pm is way too much of a gap. Instead, feed your cat a small meal before you head to bed, and set up a timed feeder to go off at 3 am.
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    Play with your cat by using a wand toy or throwing a treat for them to run after. You can also add scratching posts, climbing platforms, and/or a catio to your living space, which may help reduce your cat's stress.
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      • You may be tempted to discipline your cat for bad behaviour by spraying it with water or hurting it. Cats do not respond well to punishments and it can even cause it to fear you or become more aggressive. [12] The best way to "discipline" your cat is by rewarding good behaviour with positive reinforcement like treats or cuddling. And discouraging bad behaviour by ignoring it or growling and hissing.
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      • Kittens are very different from adult and senior cats. They are more active, eat more, and are still learning how to socialize. Mother cats often hiss at kittens who are doing inappropriate behaviours. Replicate this by hissing and showing teeth at kittens right at the moment that they display unwanted behaviours.
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      • Always have water available for your cat.
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      • Panting can be normal after exercise. However, any wheezing or coughing that follows panting, can be signs that your cat has heart or respiratory problems. Take your cat to the vet immediately if they show these symptoms.
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      • Cats are desert animals and get most of their water from food. Be sure that your cat is drinking water or receiving water from wet canned food. It is usually recommended you feed your cat a can of wet food if they are on a dry food diet. Or mix in water with their kibble if they don't particularly do well with wet food.
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      • Never use your hands as play things with your cat. You can get seriously hurt and your cat may equate you as prey or something to fear. Always play with your cat using toys.
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      1. ↑ Molly DeVoss. Certified Feline Training and Behavior Specialist & Certified Cat Behavior Consultant. Expert Interview. 15 July 2021.
      2. ↑ Molly DeVoss. Certified Feline Training and Behavior Specialist & Certified Cat Behavior Consultant. Expert Interview. 15 July 2021.
      3. ↑ Molly DeVoss. Certified Feline Training and Behavior Specialist & Certified Cat Behavior Consultant. Expert Interview. 15 July 2021.
      4. ↑ Molly DeVoss. Certified Feline Training and Behavior Specialist & Certified Cat Behavior Consultant. Expert Interview. 15 July 2021.
      5. ↑ Molly DeVoss. Certified Feline Training and Behavior Specialist & Certified Cat Behavior Consultant. Expert Interview. 15 July 2021.
      6. ↑ http://www.catster.com/cat-behavior/clicker-training-for-cats
      7. ↑ https://www.aspca.org/pet-care/virtual-pet-behaviorist/cat-behavior/teaching-your-cat-walk-leash
      8. ↑ Molly DeVoss. Certified Feline Training and Behavior Specialist & Certified Cat Behavior Consultant. Expert Interview. 15 July 2021.
      9. ↑ Molly DeVoss. Certified Feline Training and Behavior Specialist & Certified Cat Behavior Consultant. Expert Interview. 15 July 2021.
      1. ↑ Molly DeVoss. Certified Feline Training and Behavior Specialist & Certified Cat Behavior Consultant. Expert Interview. 15 July 2021.
      2. ↑ Molly DeVoss. Certified Feline Training and Behavior Specialist & Certified Cat Behavior Consultant. Expert Interview. 15 July 2021.
      3. ↑ http://www.catbehaviorassociates.com/the-squirt-bottle-controversy/

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      To encourage your cat to go to sleep, try playing with it before its bedtime, which will help tire it out. Also, try to include your cat in your bedtime routine so it starts to recognize when it's time to go to sleep. For example, you can groom your cat and feed it special treats every night before bed and then lead it to its sleeping area. You can also try giving your cat lots of things to do during the day, like interactive toys and finding hidden treats, so it's more tired come nighttime. To learn how to change your cat's feeding schedule so it sleeps at night, scroll down!

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