What are your secrets for attracting guys?
I'm officially over being single and am desperate for tips to attract more guys. Please share your secrets! How can I be more attractive so I can find a new bf (preferably quickly!) who's actually a good, nice guy?
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The best way to stand out and be more attractive to guys is to smile, have open body language, and show that you're interested in talking to them. A smile really does go a long way. It tells guys that you're friendly and engaging. Sometimes when we like someone we become anxious and do subconscious things to close ourselves off, like crossing our arms, turning away, and talking to other people. So try to avoid that by engaging with guys you like and showing them you're open to having a conversation.
You can also wear certain colors to attract guys, like red, blue or green, since colors can say a lot about you on a subconscious level. Avoid the colors purple and black.
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You can also wear certain colors to attract guys, like red, blue or green, since colors can say a lot about you on a subconscious level. Avoid the colors purple and black.
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Maintain confident eye contact and body language. Fidgeting conveys nervousness, but steady eye contact signals comfort and interest. Stand tall with an open posture. Lean in slightly when listening.
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Give sincere compliments about his appearance and accomplishments. Flattery shows your interest. Say things like "You have an amazing smile" or "Congrats on the promotion!"
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Boost your natural beauty with makeup. Emphasize your eyes with mascara and eyeliner. Use lip gloss or matte lipstick for a pop of color. Avoid caked-on foundation or dramatic eye shadow.
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Initiate conversation about hobbies and interests. Discuss topics you're passionate about. Guys like women who have their own passions. Ask him thoughtful questions, too.
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Be yourself and engage in conversations with them, go out of your way to compliment him, say if he was in football, "You have a good arm," after he throws. talk to him about common interests or things you both like individually. Weat things that flatter your body type and wear subtle makeup that enhances your beauty, don't make it cakey or too bold.
you got this girl, I'm rooting for you.
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you got this girl, I'm rooting for you.
Act natural. Don’t sit there alone looking all worked up and boring smile tag along with friends be friendly. BTW most guys are shy so you can’t always expect them to come they may use their friends to get to know you so be careful how you treat others
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I know its cheesy but: be yourself, most guys can spot a fake (if they can't then you probably don't want to be with them. XOXO Vanessa
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Dress stylishly in outfits that flatter your body type. Guys love when a woman looks put-together and confident. Opt for figure-hugging dresses, low-cut tops, and bold colors. Accessorize minimally.
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or if your not comfortable with your body you can dress in a way you feel comfortable and stylish!
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