How to Get Child Support Arrears Dismissed

This method is appropriate if a state child support agency has taken over your case and is collecting child support payments from you and distributing them on your behalf.

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   Contact the child support agency in charge of your case. To find contact information for your local child support agency, go to https://www.acf.hhs.gov/css/map/state-and-tribal-child-support-agency-contacts and click on the state where the child lives or where the original child support order was entered. Then, call the number provided and say you want to discuss your child support arrears. ^[10]

   • Be upfront about any change in your financial circumstances. For example, if you've lost your job, let the caseworker know when you lost your job and what you've been doing to find a new one.
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   Ask about debt compromise, forgiveness, or arrears management. Different states call these programs by different names, but they all accomplish the same basic goal. Through these programs, some or all of your arrears are waived. In exchange, you make specific payments as agreed. Often, these payments are automatically deducted from your paychecks. ^[11]

   • Usually these programs don't forgive all of your arrears, only a portion of them. Under the agreement, you'd still need to make your regular child support payments plus a debt payment to cover the portion of your arrears that wasn't forgiven.
   • Don't make any promises to the caseworker that you don't think you can keep. Most debt compromise plans have conditions attached—if you don't think you can meet those conditions, say so. There might be something else they can do.
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   Fill out a form requesting a discharge of your arrears. The child support agency will have a form for you to fill out if you meet the requirements for their debt reduction program. The caseworker might mail a paper form to you, but usually, they'll email it to you. You might also be able to download the form directly from their website. On the form, you'll enter information about yourself, your child or children, your child support obligation, your arrears, and your financial situation.

   • The child support agency is looking for changes in your financial situation since child support was originally calculated for you. Those changes could also result in a reduction in your child support payments in the future.
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   Copy and attach documentation of your current financial situation. Typically, you'll need documents that prove the details about your financial situation that you described on your request form. The specific documents you'll need depend on your situation, but might include any of the following:

   • Current pay stubs
   • Recent bank account information (savings or checking account statements)
   • Public benefit award letters
   • Recent credit report
   • Proof of a bankruptcy filing
   • Current and recent bills
   • Court or incarceration documents
   • Recent income tax returns
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   Wait for a decision from the child support agency. After the child support agency gets your request and documentation, a caseworker will review the file and decide whether full or partial forgiveness of your arrears is appropriate. The specific timeline differs depending on the state agency and the volume of requests they receive, so be patient.

   • Make sure you're continuing to make child support payments to the extent that you're able to while the agency is reviewing your case. Your request is more likely to be approved if you show that you're making a good-faith effort.
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If you've had a change in financial circumstances, getting your payments reduced can decrease your future obligation. While it typically won't do anything about your arrears, it will keep them from continuing to pile up. ^[12]

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   Get a copy of the original child support order. If you don't have a copy of this with your important papers you can request one from the child support agency in charge of your case or the court that issued the order. On the document, look at the figures that show how your child support obligation was calculated and the amount of income you reported at that time. ^[13]

   • If your income has substantially decreased since the award was entered, or your expenses have substantially increased, it's more likely that a judge would reduce your child support payments as a result.
   • Judges will also look at temporary circumstances that cause a substantial change in your financial circumstances. For example, if you were recently severely ill and have outstanding medical bills, those circumstances might warrant a reduction in your child support, at least on a temporary basis.
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   Gather documentation of any recent financial changes. Use documentation that also shows the date when the change occurred. This allows the court to properly determine the date when the reduction in child support should have started. If the change happened several months ago, your arrears would be reduced or dismissed as well, depending on when you started accruing arrears. ^[14]

   • For example, suppose you lost your job 6 months ago and also stopped making child support payments. The court would determine how much child support you should have been paying based on your income after you lost your job, then reduce your arrears appropriately.
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   Ask the child support agency to review the support order. In some states, such as Florida, the child support agency can review and change the child support order if you ask. ^[15] If your child support agency isn't able to do this, they can still help explain the court procedure and help you with any forms you'll need.

   • If you need your child support reduced because of a change in your financial circumstances, you'll typically have to provide the child support agency with documentation of that change.
   • Administrative review is usually going to be quicker and less expensive than getting the order changed through the court, so if this option is available to you, take advantage of it.
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   Talk to your co-parent about modifying the child support order. In some states, such as Michigan, the court won't modify a child support order unless both parents agree. ^[16] Even if courts in your state would review a request to reduce child support without the other parent's cooperation, it's better if you're both on board.

   • Let your co-parent know why you want to modify the child support. Make sure they understand that you want to do this because of a change in your financial circumstances, and be ready to provide documentation of that change if they ask for it.
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   File a motion with the court to modify your child support. Call the clerk's office of the court that entered the original order and ask for a form. You might be able to download it from their website—if not, you can go to the clerk's office and pick up a paper copy to fill out. When you're done, turn it in to the court clerk. ^[17]

   • In your motion, indicate that you have arrears. Attach documentation of the total amount of your arrears and when you started accruing them.
   • There will usually be a fee to file the motion and have it served on your co-parent. If you can't afford the fee, tell the clerk you want to apply for a waiver. You usually automatically qualify for a waiver if you're receiving public benefits. ^[18]
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   Seek a reduction if one of your children is over 18. Once your child reaches the age of majority (extended to 19 or 21 in some states), you're no longer responsible for child support. The child support order typically doesn't terminate automatically, though—you have to go to court to stop it. If you don't go to court, you'll be expected to continue to pay child support and can rack up arrears. ^[19]

   • Often, you'll continue to pay the same amount of child support for your remaining kids unless you specifically ask to have it reduced. For example, if you're paying $800 a month for 2 kids and one of them turns 18, you'd still be paying $800 a month for the remaining child unless you asked for a reduction.
   • In some states, such as Kansas, child support is automatically modified or terminated after your child's 18th birthday. But if your financial circumstances have changed, you might still need to ask the court to lower your child support further. ^[20]
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