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Trying to deepen your friendship and become the ultimate BFF? If so, we’ve got you covered! No matter how long you’ve known someone, there’s always something new and exciting they have yet to share. So, get ready to crank up the heat and take your friendship to the next level . In this article, we’re providing the ultimate list of spicy and personal questions that you can ask your friends to build a stronger bond, in person or over text. [1] X Research source
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Spicy
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1Who was your first crush?
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2Have you ever had a crush on your sibling’s friend?Advertisement
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3Have you ever had a crush on your friend’s sibling?
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4When did you have your first kiss?
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5How many people have you kissed?
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6Have you ever French kissed someone?
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7What’s the most attractive physical feature?
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8Do you think you’re a good kisser?
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9What’s the most awkward date you’ve ever been on?
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10When was the last time you were jealous of someone?
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11Have you ever snuck out of the house?
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12What’s your type?
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13Who’s the hottest person at school?
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14If you had to date someone in your class, who would it be?
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15If you had to date one of your friends, who would it be?
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16Do you think one of your friends has a crush on you? If so, who?
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17Have you ever played dumb to get someone’s attention?
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18Have you ever practiced kissing your hand?
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19What’s the most scandalous piece of clothing you own?
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20Would you consider yourself boy/girl crazy?
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21What would you do to catch someone’s attention?
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22Have you slid into anyone’s DMs?
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23Do you have beef with anyone?
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24Have you ever been on a blind date?
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25Have you ever been in a love triangle?
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26Have you ever shoplifted?
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27What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
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28Has someone ever spread a rumor about you?
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29Have you ever spread a rumor about someone?
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30Have you ever lied about your age?
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31Have you ever snuck into a R-rated movie?
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32Have you ever admitted your feelings to a crush?
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33Have you ever been on a dating app?
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34Have you ever dated someone you met online?
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35How would you hit on a stranger?
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36Have you ever tried to sabotage someone’s relationship?
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37What type of flirt are you?
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38Would you rather be single or in a relationship?
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39Have you ever snitched on someone?
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40Have you ever accidentally posted something on social media?
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41When’s the last time you were caught in a lie?
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42Have you ever cheated on anyone?
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43Have you ever been cheated on?
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44Have you ever lost a crush to a friend?
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45Have you ever sent a juicy text to the wrong person?
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46Have you ever played Spin the Bottle?
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47Have you stayed up all night to talk to a crush?
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48Have you ever stolen something from a friend?
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49Have you ever trespassed?
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50Have you ever left in the middle of a date?
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51Have you ever pretended to like something to impress your crush?
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52Have you ever been friend-zoned?
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53Have you ever friend-zoned someone?
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54Have you ever stalked your crush online?
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55Have you ever accidentally liked your crush’s old post?
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56What’s the meanest thing you’ve ever said about someone?
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57Have you ever smoked?
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58Have you ever drank alcohol?
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59What’s the steamiest scene you’ve ever watched in a movie?
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60Have you ever walked in on your parents?
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61What’s the most embarrassing thing your parents have caught you doing?
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62At what age did your parents give you “the talk”?
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63Have you ever had a crush on a teacher?
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64Would you ever go behind a friend’s back with a crush?
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65Have you ever read dirty fanfic?
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66What’s the biggest secret you’ve kept from your parents?
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67What’s the biggest thing you’ve ever gotten away with?
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68What’s the flirtiest line you’ve ever used on someone?
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69What’s your toxic trait?
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70Do you care more about appearance or personality?
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71Have you ever gotten in trouble with the police?
Deep
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1When’s the last time you cried? [2] X Research source
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2What’s your biggest fear?
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3Do you believe in fate or free will?
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4Have you ever felt betrayed by someone?
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5Do you believe in love at first sight?
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6What’s the longest relationship you’ve ever been in?
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7Have you ever been in love?
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8Do you want to get married someday?
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9Do you want to have kids someday?
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10What’s your favorite childhood memory?
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11What are you the most proud of?
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12What’s one thing you wish you could change about yourself?
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13Do you have any hidden talents?
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14What’s your dream job?
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15Would you say you’re an introvert or extrovert?
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16What’s the best advice you’ve ever received?
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17Would you consider yourself religious?
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18What’s your biggest regret in life?
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19Who are you closest to in your family?
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20How do you relax and unwind?
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21Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
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22What’s the biggest misconception about you?
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23How would your friends describe you?
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24How would you describe yourself?
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25What’s the #1 thing on your bucket list?
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26Would you rather have one close friend or many not-so-close friends?
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27Are you a planner or are you spontaneous?
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28Is the glass half-full or half-empty?
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29If you could solve one problem in the world, what would it be?
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30Do you care about being popular?
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31How many times have you moved?
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32What’s the biggest life lesson you’ve learned so far?
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33What are you most grateful for?
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34Would you rather have true love or a million dollars?
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35Do you think money can buy happiness?
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36What’s your biggest pet peeve?
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37Who’s your role model?
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38What’s your biggest insecurity?
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39What’s your favorite part of your body?
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40What do you love the most about yourself?
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41Have you ever been bullied?
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42Do you enjoy being alone?
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43What’s your biggest life question?
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44Do you prefer hanging out with family or friends?
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45How did your parents meet?
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46What’s the hardest decision you’ve ever made?
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47What’s something you’ve never told anyone?
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48What do you think is the most important skill?
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49What’s something you wish you were taught as a child?
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50What’s the worst punishment you received as a child?
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51What’s the best and worst thing about social media?
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52What’s something that’s not taught in school that you think should be?
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53How do you handle peer pressure?
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54Are you more creative or logical?
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55What’s the most challenging part of your life right now?
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56What’s the best gift you’ve ever received?
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57Have you ever blamed someone for a mistake you made?
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58Do you believe in astrology?
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59What’s your zodiac sign?
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60Would you want to live forever? Why or why not?
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61What could you write a book about?
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62What’s your perfect day?
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63What quality do you value the most in a friendship?
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64If your house caught on fire and you could only save three things, what would they be?
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65What are your thoughts on cancel culture?
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66What’s your favorite place in the entire world?
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67Would you rather be considered pretty, smart, or funny?
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68If you could travel anywhere, where would you go?
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69What’s something that brings you joy?
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70What role do you play in your friend group?
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71Do you think physical or emotional pain is worse?
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72What do you miss the most about childhood?
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73If your life was a book, what’s the title of the chapter you’re in now?
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74Would you rather always have to tell the truth or always have to tell a lie?
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75What’s the best and worst part about getting older?
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1If you could switch places with someone for a day, who would it be? [3] X Research source
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2What’s the most embarrassing song on your playlist?
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3Do you still sleep with a stuffed animal?
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4What’s the most awkward moment you’ve ever experienced?
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5If you were invisible, who would you spy on?
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6If you had the house to yourself for one week, what would you do?
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7If you could break up one couple at our school, who would it be?
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8What’s the worst grade you’ve ever received?
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9Have you ever lied to get out of something?
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10How would you get revenge on an ex?
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11If you could live in a fictional world, what would you choose?
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12How long could you go without talking to your best friend?
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13Do you have a secret crush?
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14Who’s your favorite celeb couple?
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15What’s the most embarrassing thing your parents do?
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16Have you ever fallen down in public?
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17Have you ever ripped your pants in public?
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18If you could raid one person’s closet, who would it be?
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19Would you rather be a better singer or dancer?
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20Would you ditch your best friend to go out with your crush?
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21What’s the dumbest purchase you’ve ever made?
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22What’s your favorite thing in your room?
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23What’s your screen time?
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24What’s your most-used app?
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25Do you prefer calls or texts?
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26How long could you go without your phone?
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27What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?
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28If you had 15 minutes of fame, what would it be for?
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29Have you ever stolen something from a friend?
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30Do you believe in conspiracy theories?
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31Who are your dream dinner party guests?
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32Would you rather live without salt or sugar?
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33If you could have any superpower, what would it be?
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34If you could time-travel, what decade are you going to?
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35Who do you think is the flirtiest person in our friend group?
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36Do you prefer TV shows, movies, or documentaries?
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37Who’s your favorite fictional character?
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38What’s your favorite band?
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39What’s your favorite drink (besides water)?
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40What’s your favorite sequel?
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41What’s the first thing you do in the morning?
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42What’s the most random fact you know?
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43Who’s your celebrity crush?
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44What’s one song you know all the lyrics to?
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45Do you have any weird habits?
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46If you were on a reality show, what would your tagline be?
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47How do you feel about pineapple on pizza?
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48What’s the funniest dream you’ve ever had?
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49Do you think you could survive a zombie apocalypse?
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50What’s your biggest irrational fear?
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51Do you prefer staying in or going out?
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52What’s your favorite and least favorite fashion trend?
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53If you could only eat one meal for the rest of your life, what would it be?
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54Do you collect anything?
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55What’s your favorite thing to do in the summer?
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56If you could speak any language overnight, what would it be?
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57What’s the longest you’ve slept?
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58Are you a morning or night person?
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59What’s your favorite food combination?
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60What’s the first thing you notice about someone?
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61Who’s the most attractive animated character?
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62Would you rather go bungee jumping or skydiving?
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63Who would play you in the movie about your life?
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64What’s your favorite holiday?
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65What’s your favorite day of the week?
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66What’s your favorite subject?
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67If you had 3 wishes, what would they be?
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68Do you prefer dogs or cats?
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69Would you rather have more time or money?
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