An androgynous look is one that ignores gender binaries and embraces both feminine and masculine qualities. Whether you want a more permanent androgynous look or are playing with styles to see what you like, the most important thing to remember is to choose the fashion, hair, and makeup that makes you happy. Plus, we spoke with professional stylist Joanne Gruber to get her best tips for using fashion to look androgynous.
How to Get an Androgynous Look: A Quick Guide
Aim for a balanced look with neutral colors and gender-neutral items like t-shirts, jeans, blazers, and oxfords. Mix traditionally masculine and feminine elements like a fedora and a flowy blouse. Use natural-looking makeup and try gender-neutral haircuts like shags or pixies.
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Community Q&A
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QuestionDo I need to cut my hair to look androgynous as a girl?Community AnswerNo way! Rock your own style. Don't let anyone tell you how you should dress or how long or short your hair should be. What's most important is that you feel like you. There are plenty of guys with long hair and girls with short hair so hair length does not have to correspond to any particular gender/identity.
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QuestionWhat if I live at home and this kind of thing isn't allowed? My mother won't let me cut my hair and she always makes me wear girly clothes. What should I do? BTW, this really helped.Community AnswerTell her that you feel like you should make your own choices on how you dress, and not have other people decide for you. Explain why it's important to you. Tell her that you respect her opinion, but you think you should dress how you want. She may not come around right away, be persistent.
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QuestionHow do I become popular if I am queer?Community AnswerBe outgoing and kind to everyone, even people you don't like. Get involved in activities - theater and poetry tend to be very accepting of the LGBTQ community, though you can do whatever you like. Embrace your style and queer identity, and be yourself.
Tips
- If you’re trying to add more masculine energy , use more confident body language, like greeting people with a firm handshake or sitting with your legs apart.Thanks
- To project more feminine energy , speak with an upward inflection when you talk and sit with your legs crossed.Thanks
Tips from our Readers
- You don't have to bind if you don't want to. You can have boobs and still be androgynous. Clothes don't always matter either, and you can look however you want and still be androgynous.
- Another good way to bind is to wear a sports bra and then put another one over the top, but backward.
- Try wearing a beanie or a hat.
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About This Article
The best way to look androgynous as a feminine looking person is to wear loose, neutral-colored clothing with oxfords or canvas sneakers. Slick back your hair and sweep bronzer along your jawline for a sharp look. To get the androgynous look as a masculine looking person, wear fitted bottoms and tailored shirts in floral prints. Experiment with a shag hairstyle and play up your cheekbones with contouring. If you want to learn more about how to choose accessories or style your hair, keep reading!
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